I love my g/f and I would NEVER cheat on her... We have been dating for a little over a year... But in the last week I have had 2 dreams about cheating (Having Sex) with 2 other girls we know from our school. I hate having these dreams because I know they would never happen. In the last dream I had, its like I was thinking about my g/f and how she would feel, but I just kept doing it. Thank god somebody woke me up before I seen it go to far. But I dont like having them... How do I stop them and why am i having them?
Im only 14 by the way.
2007-02-17 18:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Brady G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're having these dreams because you're afraid that you might be tempted to cheat on her. I also think that dreams mean something, but its hard to decipher the meaning of them. Maybe you had that dream because you're afraid that she might cheat on you, even though in your dream you were the one cheating on her. Or maybe the dream is warning you to not think about 'that' outside of marriage. Try thinking about something else before going to sleep, and try not to think about your past dreams.
2007-02-17 18:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Joshua T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannot control your dreams. Im not a professional but i do know that having dreams is a good thing and is a part of the rest u get from sleeping. If u dont truly have these feelings for these other girls just dont worry about it. Dont tell your girlfriend as this could cause confusion in the relationship... dont feel guilty bud.
2007-02-18 02:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just confusing dreams by crazy hormones dont get too worried the subcoincess is a totally wack job world sometimes it will get u in trouble and other times look to it for advice. good luck with the ladies stud
2007-02-18 02:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by kailtin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way too young to be worrying about this, I'm 29 and have those dreams sometimes! Don't stress over it, remember your still a boy!!
2007-02-18 02:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by spen21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, the same thing happened to me right before I married my wife. You cannot stop having them, dreams are just random thoughts in your mind.
2007-02-18 02:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! It will go away on its own. You'll be dreaming about your new Mustang or whatever soon!
Good luck!
2007-02-18 02:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a lust feeling no worrys your young you will go through that just dont act on them if your serious with your girl no worries though it's normal it will pass in time
2007-02-18 02:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by usher4821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about that, it's normal. dont tell your girl cause it would cause problems for you when you have contact with the other girls. this stage will come and go
2007-02-18 02:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Amenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal. dont tell her because it would only hurt her.
2007-02-18 02:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋