we are 18 i really love him
2007-02-17 17:50:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't sleep cause this probale that's why i am up so late
2007-02-17 17:59:59 · update #1
I spelled problem wrong sorry
2007-02-17 18:05:08 · update #2
I known him for 3 years
2007-02-17 18:08:04 · update #3
Since i known him he bought me like 6 rings and flowers
2007-02-17 18:17:15 · update #4
WOW! Your ONLY 18 years old! What is the rush? Why do you want to leave home so soon? Is it that bad over there at home?Seriously.Moving in with your partner is a really big step. And you should give it a lot of thought. Not until you live with someone, then you will fully get to know them. Trust me. Are you ready to get that serious with someone at 18 years old? The thing is too, you have to consider this too, that there could be a possibility that you can get pregnant as well, are you ready for children? Are you ready for the world and all the responsibilities that come along with being on your own? And have you known him long enough? Honestly..I wouldn't do it. Don't rush anything. Your still So young. Why at 18 your gonna move in with your boyfriend and settle down so young. Focus on yourself, I'm sure you love him, but he is young as well..what can he offer you at 18? Listen as you get older, security will become important to you. Not just love. Trust me.
2007-02-17 18:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say, no.
if you were 21 I would say maybe ,and 25 well by that time if you don't know better what can anyone say?
You got a real slim chance it will work out. But I will bet if you do move in, in less than 6 months,you will find out you can't stand the guy and be looking for another place to live.Save yourself the hassle.
2007-02-17 17:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it hard. Let him know how you feel. Think about financial stability before you move in and have a second plan just in case you both fight and argue and you need a safe place to stay. In other words put money aside for emergencies.
2007-02-17 17:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Janilda L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes a really nice guy I think you should. If you've known him for a very long time and you like him, you should.
2007-02-17 17:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, well think about it, think in the future..bills..money..jobs if you are comfortable with the idea, you guys are prepared for everything that comes along with it then I don't see why you shouldn't accept.
2007-02-17 17:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how well your relationship is going talk to your parents or a really close friend
2007-02-17 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by usher4821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*shrug* u r 18...do what u feel comfortable with...don't feel pressured if u don't want too. If he really loves u he will understand...if he doesn't then he doesn't love u
2007-02-17 17:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My a list of reason why you don't want too.And make other list of why you do want.Then compare,thats probably not going to help.
2007-02-17 18:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Moanika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y does he want this? make it clear with him and if u don't have any problem living alone then try to make him understand. remember distance increases love.
2007-02-17 18:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by nazia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOU want to and YOU feel it's the right thing do it,but only cause you want to not for commitment to him and if you don't then talk to him and if he loves you he'll understand and give you your space
2007-02-17 17:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋