i have this friend and she is really great we are like sisters but eveysince we started hanging out she has basicly stolen my identity. she has changed into me and takes almost every unique thing about me and makes it her own and so people are starting to look at me as the follower. now that she has taken eveything that makes me unique i feel like i have to be someone elseand it is really hurting me. its strange too becuase she likes or goes after all the guy i like she was even trying to hook me up with this one guy and she just told me she liked him and started talking to him thenone day she told me to stop liking him bc she did so i forced myself to find someone else but it just bothered me so much becuase the guy isliking her personality and its not really hers at all its myown.i am so weak and sad fromthis buti cant confront her becuase i really like our friendship (surprizingly) and i want to stay on good terms with her. there more to this story but i only have 1000 chracters.
2007-02-17 17:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by kailtin s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and tell her how you fel about it
2007-02-17 17:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you have a friend problem. Everyone needs to have a separate identity. If you continue to allow her to run your life, you will never be free to live. It is hard to do, but you need to have a serious talk with her. Tell her exactly how you feel and try to work out a compromise. It may not work and you may lose her, but you will regain you.
2007-02-18 01:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good friend but she doesn't care much about you. Other people hurt you until you put a stop to it.
She's taking so much from you. enough is enough. Live your life away from her. You're letting her go too far. Be honest with her and if she continues find yourself a real friend.
2007-02-18 01:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs originatity check. make sure she knows that. I've never heard of a situation like this. usually, friends would be in fights all the time over this. are you sure the friendship is worth it. if you're gone, she'll have no one to copy. or atleast it wont be you.
BEST OF LUCK*
2007-02-18 01:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a *****,you have to start crying when the guy is around and then he will ask you what's wrong with you,and you will explain the whole thing to him and he will see that you are the cool one and she's an impostor,and dearest,talk to her and help her find herself so she can let you be yourself,and you won't loose her,help her find herself.
good luck
2007-02-18 01:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take charge, make her feel like the third wheel lol jk, dont do that. talk to her and let her know how you feel i think thats the best way to go about, make sure you dont sound too offensive.
2007-02-18 01:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-18 01:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋