I am in a long distance relationship, I live in Chicago, IL and my boyfriend live in New Madrid, MO and sometimes when we talk I just feel like he is lying to me and that he is cheating on......but I dont know what to think. He has been acting funny lately and I feel that he does not really like me that much anymore. He does not call me as much and when we is on the phone he is always tired. I dont know what to do...I love him, but I think he is treating me badly
WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?
2007-02-17 17:38:34 · 6 answers · asked by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that if your instincts tell you something isn't right then you need to follow up on that. Why don't you just ask him how he feels the relationship is going? If he tells you everything is fine on his end, and you feel he's telling the truth, then you're okay. If he tells you it's not what he wants then you're free to go find a man that is worthy of you. It might be hard but you deserve to know. Good luck!
2007-02-17 17:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already experienced the breakdown of trust in the relationship. From here it can only go down hill. Break off the relationship without prolonging your own pain. Then take some time just for you. Do some things that you have always wanted to. In time you will find someone new, perhaps someone closer to you. A friendship is a great start for a relationship.
2007-02-17 17:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but i personaly dont like lond dist. relationships b/c of this. Im a guy so take my word for this. just try to talk to him about it. maybe he really is in love with you and isnt cheating
2007-02-17 17:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me - when someone treats me badly I tell them to take a hike.
2007-02-17 17:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut on this one.
Good Luck
2007-02-17 17:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him
2007-02-17 17:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋