So, i met this guy in september and we've talked and stuff...but nothing has really happened. I asked him out a few weeks ago and he said yes. We had a good time and he was a gentleman the entire date. He and I had some good conversations and we learned that we have a lot in common.
And after that night, we still talked and it was normal, but...nothing seemed to progress and i'm not sure if he is just shy or if he doesnt really like me that much. I see him and his friends starring at me all of the time and the friends have talked to me- but still- nothing is really happening.
To make the long story short, he definitely seems into me sometimes and likes to share about himself and asks me about my life and what i want. But, other times, i'm not sure because he isnt really pursuing it as much as i had hoped he would. I'm confused...HELP!!!
2007-02-17 17:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by stuffhatred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-17 17:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably taking it slow or wanna figure out how you may feel first before chasing you away. i think i kinda met some guy like that and was confused. are u talking about physical part right? cause it sounds like you two are dating but nothing physical ever happened. he may be inexperienced or not sure what he does may make you feel. if you have no doubt he likes you, initiate the physical part....like holding his hands by accident or kiss him on the cheek or lips and see how he reacts. i think it's a little odd to talk about whether kissing or holding hands beforehand. try it first then if he doesn't like it, talk about it..then you'll know.. good luck!
2007-02-17 17:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he genuinely likes you and wants to know you because he wants a relationship. He sounds like a nice guy. Isn't that what girls always complain about NOT finding?
2007-02-17 17:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u .its just the fact that he is too shy.if u r so desperate bout him than tell him what u feel bout him &if u r ready to wait than let it go like that someday or the other he will propose u. u just keep on enticing him.
2007-02-17 17:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by sweet & bitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you aren't clear what his intentions are. if he wants to be with you, that'd be the right time to say it. good luck
2007-02-17 17:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋