My boyfriend? and I have been having serious issues...we broke up ..and then continued as if it never happened...I'm thinking we're not together and then today he announced that I haven't been putting 100% into working things out....problem is we live together...how can I tell if I'm even interested in trying to work things out....I'm not sure if I'm just bitter and keeping tally ( what I've done for him vs. what I think he should have done for me)...or if I just don't love him anymore...any suggestions?
2007-02-17 17:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by luvleechica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him
2007-02-17 17:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there's no feeling involved that's why you too continued as if nothing happened after braking out.
As an outsider I see your relationship as two roommates, you may care for each other but it looks like the love between a man and a woman there's no longer there.
He sees that you're not doing your best to make things work but in a way you're not sure if you're interested, so call it as it is. you are not in love anymore, just friends.
2007-02-18 01:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve been fine with the idea of not being together..youre over him and its not just bitterness....i would say that if you dont want to work things out tell him this and find a new place to live...you can not want to be with someone and still love them so if you dont want the relationship anymore dont stay just b/c you love him still...love cant always fix everything and so we have to move on...it appears you already have so i congratulate you on that :)
2007-02-18 01:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Liana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt be a difficult at all, to make the right decision.
Look at all the red flags flying:
You have serious issues.
You broke up.
Got back together with no resolution.
You're unsure of your feelings.
2007-02-18 01:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will trult know if you want to be with hinm ask your self would you be hurt if you seen him with someone else if so you truly still love him and then work it out you should know rite away if it's ment to be if not why waist your time lifes to short there is way to many guys out there so don't sit around move on move out and see how you feel hope this helps
2007-02-18 01:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by j6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are living with him, you may as well try to work it out now. If it fails, you can always leave later, and you'll have a game plan by then.
2007-02-18 01:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you are living togerther then you cant not have
broke up, but it sound like both of you need to talk to each other
so that you can fiqure out what you want in this realationship
if you really want to work things out then communication is the
key to this. you need to stop talking at each other and talk to
each other.
2007-02-18 01:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try living away from him and see how you feel.
2007-02-18 01:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOLLOW your heart.
2007-02-18 01:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go there will be trouble.... and if you stay there will be double......
2007-02-18 01:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by who me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋