i had always preffered a love marriage . i want to become something in life . i am really confused and cannot share my grievances with anyone . can u plz help me?
2007-02-17 17:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by IPSHITA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sit down and have a heart to heart discussion with your mother. She is most likely concerned about you and doesn't want to see you go through life alone. Explain to her your priorities and your goals. Find time to ensure that she is still a part of your life as that is always a mother's worry. She will most likely understand and just needs to hear it from you in a mature way that will show her you are capable of living your life.
2007-02-17 17:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a bit young to marry, if you ask me.
Should wait till you are 21, for the sake of your health.
So far as career goes, you should talk to your parents and have to convince them that, it is important for your to become something first.
By the sound of your mail, if you say that you want a love marriage, you might be forced to marry soon.
2007-02-18 01:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should have no say so in the rulings of your heart and who it wants to love. Who you should marry should be up to you and only you. If you listen to your mother and marry who she wants you too and not for love then you have only yourself to blame for your unhappiness.
2007-02-18 01:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a spine and learn to say NO.
2007-02-18 01:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mother about how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-02-18 01:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋