I like this guy he is 18 and I am 20, hes kinda shy and honestly I dont think hes going to be the one to do the asking out, can i or will it look desperate?
2007-02-17 17:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it.
2007-02-17 17:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some chances to ask you out. You will sound desperate if you ask him if hes 18 and youre 20
2007-02-18 01:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by f00tball77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly acceptable and quite common place for the woman to make the first move or even propose marriage in relationships. If he is that shy, then make a subtle first move. Invite him to a lunch or a social gathering, both of which tend to be less date-like initially and therefore less stressful. Get to know him and move from there. Good luck.
2007-02-18 01:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you leave it up to the guy. Maybe he is to shy to ask you out. You won't look desperate, come on we aren't in the 50's anymore.
2007-02-18 01:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by ddp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...maybe you can start out by asking him how he feels about you.... and ask him what he sees happening between you and him whether its just staying friends or dating... as far as making the first move---well....honestly...I would just ask him for a coffee at starbucks or to lunch and then go from there.
Good Luck
2007-02-18 01:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might look a little bit desperate. not because of the fact that you're the woman, because of the age difference.
2007-02-18 01:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I say go for it. You could say that you'd like to have some cake at a cafe and ask if he's like to join you. Good luck!
2007-02-18 01:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by cocoa prinzess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and ask...what is the worst that can happen? good luck
2007-02-18 01:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.
2007-02-18 01:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. n
2007-02-18 01:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋