2007-02-17 17:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the age and what kind of relationship you are looking for.
2007-02-17 17:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by ORL23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on the guy. Parents are going to have rules because they were young once. If you are just trying to date and not thinking bout anything serious then you can date while still living with your parents. They might have some rules for you to follow, and sometimes they are looking out for you. I think that if a relationship is good and strong then it will survive. If you start dating while living with your parents and the relationship starts to get serious, then it will last long enough for you to become independent and see where things really are going. If you both still feel the same way about each other then it may be real. Love takes time and even then, things still go wrong. I'm living with my proof, ;-) we've been through thick and thin but we still together.
2007-02-18 01:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Honeybun 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now this is a question I wish more guys asked...haha. In some ways yes, in some ways no. You are a boy, you will always have that connection with your mom, because of the role she's played in your life, but at the same time, depending on the relationship you have with your mother, it may NOT be a good idea until you are on your own and able to make your own independent choices, because she MAY want to intrude. Not to scare you or anything. :o) But I think you shouldn't let your feelings for a girl come between those of yours and your mom's.
Hope I helped.
2007-02-18 01:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Define independent. You don't need to wait until you move out before you get a g/f. I only waited until I was slightly independent. Ie. Having my own car, or having a real income are plenty to sustain a relationship.
2007-02-18 01:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should date while you are in high school and beyond. It would be nice and show initiative to go out and get a job to show that you are on the road to independence. Now if you are older than 23 and still depending on your parents then I think you need to stop dating and get yourself together first!
2007-02-18 01:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what kind of relationship you want.
Anyway, i don't think you need to be independant of your parents. Maybe u might need theri approval when you are younger, but rules were made to be broken anyway!
2007-02-18 01:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by het.mari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe in traditional Nigerian cultures, or somewhere. In the US, no. The young lady should be introduced to the young man's parents, and be treated as a guest of his family when she visits. The same is true when he visits her home.
2007-02-18 01:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by 2n2222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Otherwise your parents pay for everything. Plus when things get hot and heavy, can you afford a baby?
2007-02-18 01:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your age, if your 16 or below, yes you should wait, but any older then I say no, you are old enough to make your own decisions.
2007-02-18 01:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it really depend on what you want in the realtinship if it friendship
then no., but if you are looking for more then it would be better
to be able to date someone. dating is not cheap.
2007-02-18 01:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋