if i tell a girl i like her, and she says she doesnt, wuld we still be friends?

Question

Hey all,

I have a good friend who is a girl, we go out often, but i dont we are bf/gf at the moment. IF i tell her that i like her, and for some reason she says she doesnt like me in THAT kind of way, do you think we culd still be good friends. I think i would feel uncomfortable seeing/talking to her if she would say she didnt like me.

Answer 1

It's perfectly okay!

You have feelings for her, so it's better to tell her, because if you don't, you'll never know how she feels about you, and whether or not she likes you back, at least you won't regret not EVER telling her.

1st outcome, she likes you back, great. 2nd outcome, she doesn't like you romantically but as a friend, still good.

There's no need to turn into enemies just because she doesn't like you in that way. Maybe overtime she might like you, or she already treats you like a best friend or a brother, and she can never see herself being your girlfriend.

Whatever it is, be glad of such an angelic girl in your life, and you'll be contented. So you guys are going to still be friends!

Good luck.

Answer 2

I would try to find out if she likes you in that way. Flirt some more, maybe include a friend to ask if she would ever feel that way. Give hints without coming right out and saying it. Hmmm hate have her/you feel uncomfortable and end the friendship.

Answer 3

But first find out if she likes you or not but I know that you will feel uncomfortable but still be with her saying how much you love her you know there is a saying Try Try One Day You Will Fly be with her keep her safe from all dangers and show your love without hiding try to make her feel you are a hero and try to do impress her

Answer 4

You can still maintain your friendship, provided that you
a) don't act all sulky and upset because she wasn't interested in you in a romantic way, and
b) don't keep pestering her to change her mind, but just enjoy the friendship.

If, as you say you have lost interest in seeing her / talking to her because she turned down your advances, you don't sound like much of a friend.

Answer 5

I agree with you.. I would feel awkward being with someone that was into me hoping some day it could be more and Im just not interested. The person would probably be flirty all the time and I wouldnt reciprocate being afraid of leading them on.

Answer 6

If you are uncomfortable hearing what her truth may be, don't tell her if you want to remain friends but if you have feelings and ready for a possible rejection then tell her. BUT You will never no until you tell her.

Answer 7

Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesnt think your worth dating? thats being the nice guy who will always just be friends. Grow some balls and walk away, dont speak to her again and go meet other women who might respect you enough to date you.

Answer 8

yes she would be flatttered either way. and it's always a good thing to make people feel good about themselves. plus, i think this type of realationship happens to like 1/2 of all guys where they try for someone and she turns him down. or vise versa may be somewhat popular too but i wouldn;t really know so much.

Answer 9

YesI do think you can still be good friends. It might be a little awkward at first...but if you two are truly friends this won't make a lick of difference in your friendship.

Answer 10

I'd get over it man, if he's stealing all your girls unintentionally then maybe YOU need to talk to them instead of waiting for him to! Don't bother using internet chat up lines. Good Luck, Max