Lately Ive been depressed because I am 20 still no boyfriend. Guys say im pretty and like my personality but I hardly ever get asked out. Am i going to end up alone. I hate seeing everyone around me with someone.
2007-02-17 17:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, you say, "Guys say im pretty." Do you think your pretty? Do you like your personality? If so, then take a chance.
Don't get so hung up on the idea that the guy is supposed to ask the girl. If it freaks you out too much, ask for a "friend" date. In other words, bring up a movie coming out soon that you'd really like to see. If he says he'd like to see it too, say, "we should go see it when it comes out."
Seriously, you will never get a yes if you never try. If he says no, no big deal. Sure, you may feel -upset- about it, but you'll get over it.
If even this sounds like too much, you can always say you and some friends are going out, and invite whoever to tag along. No pressure there.
And no you aren't going to end up alone.
2007-02-17 17:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you dont have someone now, doesnt mean your never going to get anyone. There are MANY guys out there looking for a girl like you. It just takes time. Wait, and the right guy will ask you out, marry you, and have a happy ending with you. Trust me...
2007-02-17 17:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by GorgeousGal10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Bridget? Read some of these Tear-Jerking, Sob Stories? and tell me you're gonna feel sorry of being alone? These Folks are in misery. and they have someone. Or, at least think they do. Be happy that you don't have any "BF" problems. Being with someone is what OTHERS say you should do. I say, wait until you find that one true Love. Then you can rest easy that you're gonna be happy. Not upset, like so many of these Clowns are!
2007-02-17 17:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i completely understand the feeling u r goin through sweety...don lose hope so easily...may b it's not the rite time 4 u. there's definately some1 special is waitin 4 u. some people r way too lucky they get 2 experience things very easilly n early but some mite b like u..ie. they recquire some more time 2 find the ONE. so wish u that u get ur man soon. gud luck!
2007-02-17 17:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with the fact that you need to show your strong and desirable. You are in prime of your life, don't waste it waiting. Be assertive ask a man out, this is the way alot of people take what is dished up for them. You need to look for what you want, not wait for it to come to you. Get what you want out of your life.
2007-02-17 17:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by ratfart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how u feel i felt the same way u just have to b u and please whatever u do dont act like someone u not cuz that is a big turnoff...trust me god hears your pain he gonna send somebody to love u and cherish u...dont give up true love is looking 4 u..i really hope this helps
2007-02-17 17:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey come on, don't lose hope so easily. Your time will come! Just wait and never lose hope. There is someone out there just for you. It's just a matter of time.
2007-02-17 17:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Neha j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are only 20 you have the rest of your life, boy will
come around, dont worry so much about this. i think that you
will find that special someone. you wont be along.
2007-02-17 17:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe you are sending out the wrong signals, try flirting, like saying somthing around a cute guy to let him notice you, guys are all about sex so it should be fairly easy
2007-02-17 17:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by kathleen h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can do is wish you the best of luck. I have no advice because, quite simply, I am in the SAME BOAT and as you can imagine, I HAAAAAAAAATE it. *sigh*
I will say a little prayer for us both! :)
2007-02-17 17:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Valarie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋