well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot.this has been happening since december. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me? what should i do?
2007-02-17 16:49:23 · 18 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why waste your time when there re so many people unless you go to a small school ! Anyway if someone I liked and asked me out I wouldn't have say "I'll think about it". To me that screamed NO . Find someone more suited to you.
2007-02-17 16:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is definately a possibility that she likes you. When a girl stares at you, and looks away when you look up, that means we are interested, we just don't want you to know. But deep down we do want you to know, thats why we take the risk of looking in the first place, to see if you'll catch us. If it was her friends that told you she said no, then that could mean that they convinced her to say no. I think you should talk to her and try to figure out how she feels straight from her, grapevines aren't always that sturdy to hold on to.
Crys D.
2007-02-17 16:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Crys D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like she wants your attention still.She doesn't like you in that way but knowing that you like her and that you'll pay attention to her is why she's asking for it.I know because i am the same way, I love attention and even though nothing can come of the attention i get it makes me still feel special and wanted. Now if you think that by paying attention to her will eventually pay off then by all means go for it..but my advice is to be friends and dont be surprised if she suddenly disappears one day b/c she doesn't want or need your attention anymore. I'd start looking for someone new if i was you.
2007-02-17 17:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Liana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's acting like that cause she feels bad that she didn't have the guts to talk to you herself. There could have been a situation that kept her from saying yes..but why bother racking your brain about that. If she was really into you she could let you know. If you really what to give it another shot ask her out again or give her your number and tell her to give you a ring. IN the meantime, keep your eyes open for someone who won't be so indirect.
2007-02-17 16:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's reconsidering. A lot of times the friends convince the girl that she shouldn't go out with the guy, so it might have been that. Just wait and see where it goes.
2007-02-17 16:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's shy around you cause she just found out that you like her. she's looking alot at you durin class coz she's not sure whether she's done the right thing by saying 'no'.she's probaly not trying to get ur attention, maybe you just felt like she is coz that's how feelings work. they tend to confuse you and you'll hear what you want to hear.
2007-02-17 16:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by carmen_from_my 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wasnt comfortable around you when you first asked her out since shes shy and all. give it another chance and start talking to her again because i can tell by reading what you wrote she is feeling you...go for it! you have nothing to lose! lol
2007-02-17 16:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Miggs *C.G* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just thinking about she likes you or not...sometimes its a hard dicision to make...she could also just be shy around guys, or shes under peer pressure because of her friends, you should talk to her about it and see how it goes from there
good luck :)
2007-02-17 16:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by i_luv_puppies2134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said no ten she she means no so now u r just seeing what
wanna see just move on that is not the worse thing that can hyappen to iu
2007-02-17 16:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks you are a freak. She's probably working on getting a restraining order right now.
2007-02-17 16:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋