I am a music maniac... and rescently became single for good...
I saw this girl in my bus stop. Always with headphones And she is so attractive (to me)
She knows that I go crazy when I see her but she doesn't wanna respond but she looks straight in the eye which is good.
I don't often go by bus because I drive to Uni and to work..
After a few weeks I moved close to Uni so the chances of seeing her at the usual bus stop are very low.
Suddenly I came to know that she works at a coffe shop that i often go to.
I really wanna ask her out. tell me a way to ask. Coffee shop is too busy to talk. bus stop sounds good. she goes to a different university.
Surely can't ask for a coffee as she must be sick of coffee.
I don't know if she'd like to go out for dinner straight away.
2007-02-17 16:46:38 · 17 answers · asked by cool_dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey everybody...
All of you have given wonderful ideas and every answer has it's own cool way.
I really appreciate you all for your thoughts.
I simply can't make one answers the best cus all answers are so good.
I didn't meet her yet but this week hopefully.
Discoverers' pls vote for the best answer..!
2007-02-20 10:46:47 · update #1
neat, you sound like you got the situation in hand, the next step is not much of a gamble, she didn't t reject you, she sounds attractive in her way, so probably has a few other options, but she s looking at you as one of them, the first looks and impressions are done, and the but check is done too, so now were looking at clever statements, and the best way to have clever responses is to improvise and be yourself, and to do that you got to keep the nervous devil away, and to do that, think of other woman opportunities you have or have had, and possibly can have, and think of her as not the only option, and then she will want you as a challenge, and then asking out is only a nice , none engaging, casual outing, and it doesn t intrude on her territory, and she can only accept.
2007-02-17 17:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lack the self confidence to flirt with her, then Id say go the indirect direct approach.
A flower and a simple note that reads something like,
I think youre cute/beautiful/interesting,
and want to get to know you better
Lets talk
leave your telephone number
Keep it that casual. Its romantic, non threatening,safe.
The only problem youd have is is shes an old fashion type where the guy calls the girl. But since your having trouble with it, this is probably best approach
If she calls she calls, if she doesnt, well c'est la vie.
2007-02-17 16:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by writersbIock2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out when the coffee shop closes and go there right before they close. That is if she works the last shift.
If not, try to find out when she gets off. Ask one of your guy friends to go there and strike up a conversation. Have him ask her when she gets off and be there when she does.
Go in and order coffee first before talking to her. Sit down and look at her from time to time, then walk over to her just before she gets ready to leave.
Strike up a conversation. About ANYTHING. Then ask her if it would be ok to give her a call.
Try to get her number. Call 2 days later. You don't want to look like a stalker.
Call her and just talk! Nothing else. Tell her you really enjoyed talking to her and ask her if it would be alright to call her again. Give her your number. Say you'll be in touch.
If she acts like she likes you, call her the next day and ask her out to dinner.
If you're not sure if she's interested in you or not, wait 2 more days before calling her again and THEN ask her out.
This should work nicely.
2007-02-17 16:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the pefect thing to do is act funny/..it always works girls love a guy thats funny...make a joke tell her "hey I wanted to know that if sometime I could take you out to get some coffee?" trust me it'll work she'll start laughing and there you go!
ask her questions, you don't wanna jump at it quick and seem like a wierdo! and what ever you do never get yourself acting stupid and caught a a question you can't answer
like if you ask her about sports or something and you have no idea what teams she's talking about! and last of all...play it kool girls like a guy that's slick...but act funny also most of all!!!
2007-02-17 16:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you be really sweet next day ask her out if you be sweet then she'll have a crush on you and she'll say yes and do not beg
2007-02-17 16:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's simple ... She like you too , so just talk to her ... Actually let her talk to you , nonetheless just make the first move ... What do you have to loose
2007-02-17 16:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask if she wants to do something sometimes and then get her number and think maybe like a movie or something?
2007-02-17 16:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Uhm_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what type of music she is listening too, or what her major is at the uni she is attending.
2007-02-17 16:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up music and ask her if she would like to go to a concert with you
2007-02-17 16:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm that's pretty tough, tell u wat.......she's waitin for u to do it, so which ever way works out pretty fine, the first doesn't have to be the best
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2007-02-17 16:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋