there is this really cute guy but...........best anwser 10pts?

Question

he is a grade higher then me and i cant date but he shows signs saying that he likes and i like him to me but i havent talked to him yet and i am way to shy in general (not just to him) and dont even know his name or really anything about him what should i do

if you need more info go to my profile and read my past question called "What does this mean"

Answer 1

well ask him! you dont even know his name! dont worry you're not alone......i dont even know his name! well you could write him a secret admirer note! and tell him to do something like a signal to the grl he likes! maybe like.....tap her shoulder! if you pick me as the best answer i'll smile!

Answer 2

I am guessing by the term grade...you are still under the college level. Not sure how old you are, but if you have a myspace, then that's a good way to locate him and send general messages that will pull him to tell you how he feels, if he feels something. I am shy to and I am 21 years old and haven't dated in a long time because of this. But I found one of my old schoolmates from high school on myspace and we are together now. He's the sweetest guy I've been with. PLEASE don't do this with people you don't know. But since you already know of this guy, then try the computer thing for a while until you are comfortable with having daily conversations with him in school! Good luck girlie!

Answer 3

Well if you like him, you can do this in different ways. 1. Write a letter telling him. It lets him know but it's kind of childish, but it all depends on how he is. 2. Just act casual go next to him and just say "hi". Try to spark a conversation..."How are you, how was your day" Than just ask simple questions. Or just ask if he would like to get something to drink, eat after school and just hand out, and talk there. I know you said you are shy, with some guys that is cute... but just take a breathe and go with the flow. Be yourself, don't try to impress. It's just talking, that's all it is, you are not trying to do open heart surgery or something. So just go with it, it'll come to ya. I hope I helped!

Answer 4

okay so first of all if you are still using grades I would have to say don't date. I dated and I really am not happy with my LITTLE KID relationships. you wont be either. HAVE FUN go out with your friends. okay I was shy too really I know what you mean. If he is showing signs of liking you and not talking to you ever then he obviously just likes the way that you look. HE Doesn't know you so get to know him first then see wear it goes.

Answer 5

I've run into this problem before. Find someone who knows this person and befriend them. Then casually make your way towards the guy until he sees how great you actually are. Don't be too shy, because us guys can sense this and want nothing to do with shy girls, unless they're absolutely adorable, in that case don't change anything. You'll see over time you'll be getting to know them more and more, then make you're decision whther you like him or not.

Answer 6

I know you said you were shy but just try and try to tell him, its always worth a try just because you can't date doesn't mean you cant have a relationship and try to get to know him well before you say you like him just build up small talks like in the hall or something like hey and how are you's and stuff like that small talk can build up and i wish you the best of luck on this guy!

Answer 7

I'm the exact same way, in the exact same situation, only there's two guys, and they just hapen to be best friends (and I know theier names). If the guy was really into you, he'd make more of an effort than just grinning. If you're anything like me, though, you'll pine silently for him.

Answer 8

ok When you see him say hello my name is Fancy and I was just noticing a fine man like you checking me out and was wondering if I can buy you some lunch maybe Sat afternoon at the waffle house.Then you talk to him and ask him questions abt himself like ask him does he have any brothers or sisters. Ask him if he has any pets at home. Ask him what's his pet peeves are so on and so on. If you need any more advice abt what to say to him, Just send me a private msg.

Answer 9

think maybe he's just a tad shy. does he know that ur mum wont let u date? coz if he does, maybe thats one reaons why he wont approach you..

he could also be afraid that you wont like him if he does suddenly tell u he likes u and wont like the feeling of rejection... so the next part is up to you. IM not allowed to date and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he's older than me also but it was MY decision, not his or my parents..

if u wanna go ahead with it then show him sure signs that ur interested.. smile at him, even talk to him or his friends (just make sure u act clear about the fact that u like the guy and not his friends!!).. if he starts to show you he might like you too, sit with him sometimes.. start small talk.. about anything at all.. just to show that ur interested in him knowing bout u then ask questions u wanna noe about him so he knows u ARE interested.. he might just crack and ask you out but if he's still shy maybe just wait till he's ready, especially when he shows he likes you..

if YOU're ready then ask him out, but make it casual.. just say something like.. im going by gloria jeans for a drink, wanna come? like that.. so if he says no, it's not like he rejected you and you can still talk to him later without feeling wierd about it.. be yourself and enjoy what you're doing with him.. even if its just saying hi.

i think the fact that he looks at u and that his friends pushed him towards u to dance shows he does like u because well.. his friends want to see u together but i think he's just afraid of rejection.. dont be put off by this!! just coz he's not making a move doesnt mean he's not interested.. just not sure of himself.. YOU be the one to make him feel good about you and himself and also.. if u want him but cant have him coz u cant date.. get to know him and be good friends and when ur comfortbale.. tell him how u feel but ask him if hes willing to wait for ya.. it could still work!! if you want in now, go for it! if he's a good guy, you're mum will understand.. or she doesnt have to know.. in the end, it's up to you what you do

good luck!! =]

Answer 10

Wait until you are allowed to date before you get your *** kicked by your parents. A cute guy is never worth getting in trouble with them...