Theres this guy I like we work together. but he's 22 with no kids. Im 30 and have 3 kids. Do you think age can be a problem and also my kids????
2007-02-17 16:24:25 · 15 answers · asked by M L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it wil be a problem down the road the fact that he so much younger then you are and that you have 3 children, that a big
one, he still trying to get his life together and being iwth someone
that has kids, will be a problem. i would serious think about
find someone your own age..
2007-02-17 16:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends. I have a relative that was about 35 at the time and she had three children. Then she met a man that was extremely mature for his age and grew up faster than most had to. He was in his mid twenties. Now they have been married for about 8 years and have a 7 year old son together. Things can work out! You never know.
I also have another relative that always wanted kids, but his first wife didn't. After divorcing her, he married someone that had four children and he couldn't be happier to finally be a dad. They didn't have an age difference, but this works for the kid thing.
2007-02-18 00:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age and children should never be a problem. It just depends on him. 22 is kinda young to sorry to say be tied down with 3 kids. Also, be careful on work place romances. What if it didn't work out? You just need to talk to him. Some guys don't think this is a big deal.
2007-02-18 00:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isn't a problem if you are both near the same mental age...I know some youger men that are mentally older than older women..... The other time age comes in to play is are you in the same stages of life, meaning, if you are ready to settle down and he's wanting to club hop, then the life stages are too different.....
The kid issue, that depends on how he feels about you having kids, does he want kids, and what type of relationship are you looking for. It's a lot for a man, especially a youger man to become an instant father, unless thats what he wants and is ok with..... talk to him and see what he's looking for and wants....
2007-02-18 00:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say in this case yes he is too young and not ready for the responsibility of three kids and a wife. If he is ready for that type of environment then he is the most mature 22 year old on the planet. Doesn't mean you can't have a little fun with this man though. Just keep things in perspective. Could be really good for your ego !!!
2007-02-18 00:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not so much of a problem. It is the maturity of the other person. In your case probably his maturity level. It all depends though. I like this guy at work and he is young, but he's not American and is very different from most men. I would never go there because I would feel wierd. Twent two is young.
2007-02-18 00:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, age can be a problem. My brother is also 22 and his ex is 31 and their relationship never lasted, because his ex says he was just too immature for her and that my brother didn't always want to take things seriously and loves to flirt, etc, and she couldn't put up with it... Anybody who said age doesn't matter are idiots.
2007-02-18 00:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is fine, the kids might not like him depending on their age, if they're still young (under 5) it'll be fine but i think 6+ he'll have to be a fatherly figure
2007-02-18 00:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cody F-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not if you are in Love. I think that Love can concern all. If he likes your kids then AGE IS NOTHING.
2007-02-18 00:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a talk with him and ask him if he still wants to see you and also your kids put your kids before you
2007-02-18 00:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋