dont say im too immature or not ready casue i am just nervous helpp
2007-02-17 16:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by PinkGink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i kno u put his in urs but is that it idk im nercvous i will make a fool of myslef
2007-02-17 16:45:13 · update #1
i dont get how people call this perverted but whatever.
if you are both ready to have sex, then i would say buy some condoms go on the birth control pill and try it. i mean nobody can decide when you are ready to have sex!! listen to your body and his body and show your limits, let him know when you dont want to do something and what you want to do.
and i take that everyone knows how sex goes right?!?! just take it slow, relax and have fun. sex is not all serious stuff you can laugh. :)
2007-02-17 16:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you ask requires another question. It is interesting that you mention; don't say I am too immature or not ready! If you both are really in love, why would you suggest sex without commitment? Commitment makes the intimacy and not the other way around! Anyone can have sex, right? Animals have sex, right? Few animals make a lifetime of commitment! Anyone that wants REAL INTIMACY needs to have full commitment for each other. That is a sign of maturity! How many girls get pregnant and have no father for the child? How many may get an abortion for this reason? Real love is giving commitment for a lifetime and recognising that fact shows how mature we are.Our age does not give maturity nor does our experience! What shows our maturity will show many wise choices. Wisdom is shown by what we do with the experiences and the knowledge we have gained. Love is great and God is love. He made us and it surely is His idea that we can be intimate, and not just to have children. However, who is the wiser? Could we say we are or He? A man's love is very much determined by his hormones! Many a marriage has failed when a wife is not allowing intimacy, so he looks elsewhere. Women can tolerate a much longer time without intimacy, but a committed man that marries must have intimacy support. But a man shows his commitment by saying, "I want you forever, would you marry me?" God bless. Earl
2007-02-17 16:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im pretty sure your family isnt going to be okay with it. From my point of view and me remembering being 17 I thought I was in love but turned out when I got older I realized it wasnt. I dont understand how you can be attracted to someone that much older than you. What do you guys have in common? He has lived pretty much his whole life. He isnt going to want to go out and party with you hes been there done that. You have so much more to live for and to experience. However Im not judging you or telling you that you should break up wiht him. If you feel like hes the one the good for you. I just really think later on down the road you are going to regret being in such a serious relationship at such a young age.
2016-05-24 00:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 17 and have no clue you shouldn't be doing it. Leave it for later. But if you must use protection and just put it in slowly first and then go faster and faster. Him on top of you is an easy position and then you can sit on it or he can pull you to the edge of the bed and put your legs up to his chest and do it there. You can bend down on the bed and he ride you from behind and all sorts of creative stuff. But differently, just wait!
2007-02-17 16:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Young,Sexy&Educated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can, because you have said " don't call me I'm too immature or not ready because I am just nervous " right ?...
Okay. You could have --- . It means the experssion of your love for each other. But make it sure that you'll have NO REGRETS after doing that.
Anyways, to be safe, you can use condoms. Or maybe just let him touch your private parts but that's all..
2007-02-17 16:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pervert
2007-02-17 16:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kayle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that you trust him and make sure you are mature enough to handle the concequences if something happens and you get preg. Make sure he is too! But if you want it go for it. Just use protection. Or if you arnt ready but he wants you to he should respect you to go by your wishes.
2007-02-17 16:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Crossed Palms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you dont know how to have sex? put the banana in the donut hole if thats not clear enough watch a porno
2007-02-17 16:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by J-Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really...i think you should wait. you don't need to have sexual intercourse..oral sex will do. too many risks for sexual intercourse and especially at 17. oral sex worked for me at that age.
2007-02-17 16:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope don't do it, each person did it before marrige regrets it or hides that she regrets it mostly for girls
2007-02-17 16:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋