2007-02-17 16:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by katia_shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's because anal sex is something that they see as forbidden and almost unobtainable. Most men need a challenge, to reach for the brass ring, and when a woman tells him flat out, he can do this and this and this, but never that, it somehow becomes his ultimate sexual goal.
My husband told me that he once let it slip while talking with his friends that he and I both enjoyed anal sex. Okay, I wasn't very happy with his spilling the beans to his friends but since it was like he was bragging about me I decided that I couldn't stay too mad for too long. Anyway he said that his friends all had the same reaction and that it was big time envy. None of them went "ewww gross" or said "oh you poor guy". He said that they were all saying things like "you're so lucky" and "I wish my wife was like that". Kids always want the cookie jar that is out of reach on top of the cabinets. Men are just big kids.
2007-02-17 17:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Barb S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am a female and I am intrugued with it. I have done it many times and I really enjoy it. The partners that I have had anal sex with have really enjoyed it too. I find that a lot of men are intrigued by what they don't know- once they have experienced anal sex the novelty can sometimes wear off.
***Holy Varny, you often metion in your answers that you are a devoted Christian, etc. Have you read the bible????
Romans 14 (Don't criticise Others) , Chapter 14 verse 13:
"We must stop judging others. We must also make up our minds not to upset anyones fatih."
The Christian ways are to guide others but not to judge. You can mention that you do not approve of anal but you CANNOT think that it is ok to criticise Barb S and her husband, some of the things that you have written about her and other women, including myself are hurtful and degrading.We are not whores or sluts and we are not degrading women just because we have healthy sex lives, relationships are about sharing your love for on another- this includes through intercourse.
I think that you need to read back over some of the terrible things that you have written and pray to God for forgiveness for offending so many women and their partners. Hopefully you will allow Him to guide you to be more understanding, to not judge and to be a better Christian.
* I apologize for using this space to reach out to Holy Varny
2007-02-21 23:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so intrigued why finding out why guys are so intrigued with anal sex?
It seems to me that you've probably allowed your lover to experiment with your anus (*** whatever you call that thing) and you didn't enjoy it. But yet he always wants it...
I have no real answer but I give guidance as a guy that doesn't give much thought about anal. The thought of girl just taking a **** gets me freaked out and disgusted. Girls aren't supposed to take a **** right? Well it seems as if guys are brained washed into thinking girls ***' are clean. Well, They are wrong and brainedwashed about girls taking dumps. Well I've just know that any guy who wants to stick his dick into a girls *** and then stick it in her pussy isn't that smart...because the next night ur eating pussyshit and it's really disgusting.
I really think you've been dating to many gay guys that are just trying to step back into the straight world. I suggest that you stop worrying about why guys like anal and really invest more time into actually doing it.
Well I hope this gives you an answer from a real kind hearted man. Please let me know how the anal turns out for you.
Sincerly,
The Butt
2007-02-18 00:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Prophet_Dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because despite how open our society has become about a lot of sex acts, anal sex is still seen as 'forbidden.' Many women won't even consider trying it or even discuss it, which makes it that much more interesting to guys.
2007-02-18 00:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Southern Cat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Decent men are not intrigued with it at all. They recognize it as a disgusting and dangerous act that debases all women. Only men who are latent homosexuals with deviant tendencies are intrigued and the way that Barb S brags about her and her husband's, if that is what he really is, perversions sickens me. How dare she mention children in her answer when children could read what she wrote and be corrupted.
2007-02-19 19:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
most are not, some are, for the simple fact, they are different
2007-02-18 01:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's rily fun, they say it's passion ! hot burning passion. !
2007-02-18 00:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've never met a guy who was...............
2007-02-18 00:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
because its taboo
2007-02-18 00:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋