My boyfriend just recently broke up with me for another girl. He told me he loved me and that he found 'the one' then he went and did this to me. He has a myspace and so does this other girl, I usually check his myspace to spy and see what they are saying back and fourth to each other. It hurts so badly when I see how close they are getting, when they say I love you, you are the best, miss you etc. I hate to see it, yet I am so curious. Do you think I should keep looking, or just stop and totally ignore him because it hurts so badly. Put yourself in my position, what would you do? Please no snotty replies, I am really upset right now. I just need some advice, thanks!
2007-02-17 16:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what this feels like really. I am telling you that you need to stop you are hurting your self and you will see as soon as you stop the pain and the obsession will fade. God will bring you someone so good for you that he will feel like a distant memory.
2007-02-17 16:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to spy on myspace or be curious but I would stop since it hurts your feelings to do so. Find someone new to date and then you'll be the one who misses the other, loves others, etc. Being alone has it's advantages too, keep that in mind.
2007-02-18 00:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this to yourself. It sounds to me like as you do this it's slowly killing you a little bit inside. Instead of checking out their myspace you could be finding someone new. Even if you're not ready to move on quite yet you can head out and meet up with some friends and have a wallow day!
2007-02-18 00:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by x_peterryro_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg same thing with me im trying sooo hard not to look at his myspace and ignoor him and every time i click on it i have to goo oooo nooo and close the windo cause i want to get over him and now i just get on my myspace like once every day for like 10 min and get off cause i cant stand seeeing that it hurts sooo bad!
2007-02-18 00:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only hurting yourself, your ex doesnt care that you are using your free time on him instead of moving on.
if it hurts to see him being happy w/ this new GF, then stop the hurting bu stop the spying, you are only voluntarily putting yourself in that situation.
Move on, be sociable again, spying and stalking are the tactics of psychos...
2007-02-18 00:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should it only makes the pain worse. You should try to do things that take your mind away from the situation. I know easier said than done but things will get better.
2007-02-18 00:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not torture yourself any longer. I know it hurts, but the only one your hurting by looking is you and YOU deserve better.
2007-02-18 00:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by Paula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea thats fun to do that on my space ^_^ but u should just forget him if hes like that and get a better bf
2007-02-18 00:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by in despair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep spying and wait till she says i hate you and then gloat
2007-02-18 00:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please just erase his profile from your friends list and never look at it again. It is the best thing for you.
2007-02-18 00:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋