There's this guy. We've gone out as friends but not on a real "date." Whenever he sees me, he comes over and gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I can be in a room of people and he be standing at the door talking to everyone - but only looking at me. I have a pretty good idea that he is interested in something more but has told me in not so many words that he takes relationships very slow. He suggests us going out to a restaurant "some" night for dinner - or going to a basketball game. But no dates are set, just anticipation of a future. I am really falling for this guy. Should I wait for him to ask or invite him out somewhere?
2007-02-17 16:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant wait forever. If this guy likes you enough then he will go for you. Whynot give it a chance....you have nothing to lose!!
It seems to me that hes pretty interested in you so you should try. Trying cant hurt anyone!
2007-02-17 16:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carpe diem seize the day. he maybe like you and waiting for you to ask him out. if anything if ur in a room full of people and hes only lookin at you. i'd say that der is a pretty good chance he'll say yes. i say look at this way the worst he could say is no or you could spend the rest life wonderin what if? or u'll see in future and he'll be like i had the biggest crush on you. and ull be like if only i asked him out. being impatient is not a bad thing. in fact i think i should take my own advice.
2007-02-18 00:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by quala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? You already know the answer. Or are you wanting us to give you that push?
Lets just say... Surprise is usually a nice thing. But it appears to me you want it now and at your pace. Isn't the next move his?
2007-02-18 00:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he says he wants to go out "some" night, tell him which one is good for you. And be ready to tell him where you want to go too, he seems like the type who wants women to take charge.
2007-02-18 00:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by *Angel Preciosa* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are intrested in this guy, then stop waiting for him to ask you. You should ask him before it's to late, and he finds someone else to like.
2007-02-18 00:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest i'de say you need to chill a bit he may not want anything from you
2007-02-18 00:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋