i like this guy but almost all the girls in school hate him i dunno why buh` i think he's hot..
2007-02-17 16:15:30 · 17 answers · asked by flyingcuddlyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason y they hate him is b/c they secretly like him but he won't give them the time of day.....so they come up with some stupid reason why he's sooooo "uncool". It's only to cover up their own insecurities of be jilted or being potentially jilted.
2007-02-17 16:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should definitely make up your own mind about who you like rather than listening to what others think. On the other hand if a couple (just a few) of your friends that you really respect and can trust, can give you good reasons why they hate him - then I would consider their thoughts. The reason I would at least consider their thoughts is that if they really care about you they will be telling you things because they want you to be happy and safe. This might include reasons like - he does drugs, he drinks all the time, or he shoplifts, or he has a reputation for getting girls to go farther than they want then dumping themk or whatever. Then make up your own mind - but always be your own person with him. Depending on your age, your parents or a cool aunt or uncle are sometimes a good source of information / support too. Don't ever let a boy (or anyone) make you do things you wouldn't naturally do or don't want to do. Good luck.
2007-02-17 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-10 16:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by ireland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out why everyone doesn't like him. Chances are its for a good reason. Do your homework on him. If you think he has an underserved reputation, then try and get to know him better. I just would go slow and make sure he's not a complete loser before I would get my hopes up.
2007-02-17 16:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you like him,if you are into dating maybe you two should date. Your friends should be happy that your happy if they were your real friends. Other people may not know him well. Just look on the bright side since everyone hates him you can have him to yourself.
2007-02-17 16:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ju-Ju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him if you want to date him. It's not up to anyone else. I went through the same thing. It sucked *** that people put down my boyfriend in front of both of us. I hated that he saw that. But then you see who your real friends are. Your real friends don't decide what relationships you have. Just like you don't decide who they should date. I say go for it. If you like him (and not just by his looks) then ya gotta. It's all up to you! Your life!
2007-02-17 16:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then go for it. Are you living for you or your friends? However, if so many hate him, maybe they have a good reason, so just be careful going into it.
2007-02-17 16:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will start likeing him once he hangs around girls like you. People can change opinions pretty quickly.
2007-02-17 16:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him you like him, stand out and be different and go for it. Who cares what others think about him?
♥ Christina
2007-02-17 16:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋