I met this guy on net and I dont share with him some things which for me is private matter, like I have an almost 3 year-old baby. His work gave him chances of travelling in many countries, till I met him in person not just once and he fell in love with me. Everything seems good, till I felt close to him that I have learned to love him too.
We hang out together, communicate often when apart and we're like in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship for months now.
I never knew that I'm going to love him, I thought he was just a net friend and it will stop there. I can feel his sincerity, efforts and he's a nice person. I wanted to tell him about my baby, and this bothers me for months now bcoz our relationship's now becoming so intimate. I'm afraid how things will go and how will I start telling him. I dont know if he will understand everything. I'm 23 and he's 28, I love him so much now. He will again visit me soon.
I need an advice
2007-02-17 16:13:34 · 4 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We haven't talk about personal matters yet, I mean..I only knew few things about him and vice versa. We haven't seen each other's family yet. We are just starting to build a relationship.
My plan before was to forget him, anyway I only met him on net where I was just looking around to ease my boredom. But, as days passed, I felt its so hard to let go of him. Its unfair with him...I can feel he loves me and I also love him now.
2007-02-17 16:14:15 · update #1
I'm single...
2007-02-17 16:18:44 · update #2
I think you should take him to a nice quiet place and very nicely try to explain the situation, but be strong and do not let any type of insecurity in yourself ruin this moment of openess...anyway, you both have not shared yet deeper things about each other. This is a deep thing of yours and yes, it is ok...things happen. If he is a good guy and he really sees you as someone that he can share his life with, it is totally OK to tell him without been afraid of the outcome. Good Luck My Friend...
2007-02-17 16:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by cutelovableme4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're more fascinated with this guy sexually and you don't really know for sure if he loves you or not. A test of if he really loves you is if he responds positively about your 3 year old and can love her too. Love is alot more than what it is to be boyfriend and girlfriend. You really need to apologize to him since a child is a big part of your life and not just an incidental that he doesn't have to know until now. If he's negative about your child - he's not worth your time. You shouldn't be afraid to be upfront about your baby right away in relationships. Who cares if you scare some guys off - isn't that what you want to do when you want to find one that is sincere? The baby should be a plus to help you find a good guy instead of wasting your time falling in love and getting all emotional about someone who won't last long term for you.
2007-02-18 00:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really start talking about personal things then tell him about your baby
2007-02-18 00:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Selena♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you single?if you aren't, you're cheating.
2007-02-18 00:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by I love Beatriz...GOT A PROB? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋