i moved to a new school.... i had a really bubbly personality at the begining of the year and everyone liked me .... but it all just seemed to drift away.. i stopped talking to people... i honestly think that the only time i talk to people is during art and thats it .... i nearly go a whole day without talking ..... when we have to work in groups i just kind of stay off to the side and do it by myself... its horrible... im 6'0 and im like the tallest girl in the school and i just feel like i stick out in the halls... like i'll think to myself all day oohh i wonder if they're laughing at me or if they're talking about me ... all the girls there are all short and really skinny... it sucks... i went to a therapist and she made no difference at all ...... i took zoloft and it just made me tired... the teachers think of me as a trouble maker because of the school that i came from... my grades are horrible... i just need some help horribly.... i wake up everyday not wanting to go to school.
2007-02-17 16:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well i think you may have some anxiety.I all so think you are beeing to hared on youer self give youer self a brack.Talk to a therapist too.Oh and maybe try to list at lest 3 things you like about youer self...
2007-02-17 16:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kay----yes, you are noticeable at school. You are a tall girl.....don't let your height interfere with your life. Chance are that a few people might be saying things....but I doubt that all of them are. You have value just like anyone else. you need to quit worrying what other people think. Don't play the "what if..." game...it is only a prison.
If I were you I would stay away from the Zoloft....you are feeling insecure...that does not mean that you automatically have a chemical imbalance. Also....have you sent a snapshot of yourself to any of the modeling agency's?>??? You should...you are at the minimum height that most agencies look for. Make this work to your advantage....
Do your best to lift up your grades...just put some effort in...turn in your work and try your best on tests. by the time you get out of school...people will not care about your height.....you are a normal girl.
2007-02-18 00:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are exhibiting symptoms of both depression and social anxiety disorder...You need to talk to your therapist (or probably get a new therapist) about what's going on and get on medication that will actually help you adjust...It is hard being in a new place, I know. You should talk to your teachers about your difficulties as well--they might cut you some slack. My teachers in high school are some of the best friends I have ever made; they have helped me out so much in life. You are looking at yourself the wrong way; you should take pride in your height; it makes you unique. Sameness is boring. Be you. It's okay to be you.
2007-02-18 00:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nipivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds to me as if you have just negatively thought yourself into one big dark hole.
I suggest you stop being so hard on yourself and making up things in your head about what people are saying. You need to do one thing, that is concentrate on your school work and get better grades. You also need to lighten up on you. Start to talk to people again, they may be wondering what the heck happened.
So what if they are short and skinny, not everyone is that way. Have you seen who is on the run way in high fashion? Tall models, not one short one there honey! Do you know who makes more money and gets promoted more in jobs, people who are taller.
Stop being so down and start to think more positively, you have put yourself into this hole. Now get out! You can do this.
2007-02-18 00:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hay it sounds like you have a nice personailty. Just go up to a girl or bloke who you used to talk to and start talking to them.
You answered my question with confidence like you knew what you where talking about and it made me feel real grateful.
How old are you? if your in year 10 think about quiting and doing a course at Tafe in Beauty cause it seems you real good in that area.
Good luck
2007-02-18 01:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by pinkcarebears4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the best way to come out of depression is stop thinking of yourselves and think of of how you can help others around you...When you start helping others, your needs will be automatically taken care off.
Feel that you are here in this world to help others.
If you are interested, I can suggest you some books that have helped me.Yoga and meditation also may help you come out of your problems.
I know personaly how it'll feel like being low and worthless.....
Life is too short....Enjoy every moment of it...
2007-02-18 01:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rudheesh Raghav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋