so I've been with a new guy for more than a month now and he now tells me he needs space and that he's reconsidering things because we had two fights/arguments.. what pisses me off the most is that he cannot accept a human's flaws and wants things to be just "normal and perfect"... and apparently I am stubborn & selfish...and all I can do is laugh at that...
he's told me he loves me... which I think is sooo stupid when clearly,this isn't love... Love is something that includes sacrifices...which clearly I don't see any...but anyways...
Can I get some advice? What do you people think is really going on?
2007-02-17 16:01:00 · 3 answers · asked by luvluv_86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont know eachother very well, a month is only 4 weeks! I dont think its love, he may like you a lot, but as you say, love is accepting flaws and making sacrifices.
If he wants a break for a while, let him have it, but if you find someone else in that time then move on and get on with your life and let him find his 'perfect' match.
Good Luck!
2007-02-17 20:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just over a month isnt really long enough to really 'know somebody'. He doesnt know you fully, and you dont know him fully - maybe you're better off w/o him.
I think saying he loves you after such a short time is a bit, i dunno 'presumptious'
2007-02-17 19:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by blahblahblahx2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know whats going on , more to the point it's time to move on !!
2007-02-17 21:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋