I met this guy on net and I dont share with him some things which for me is private matter, like I have an almost 3 year-old baby. His work gave him chances of travelling in many countries, till I met him in person not just once and he fell in love with me. Everything seems good, till I felt close to him that I have learned to love him too.
We hang out together, communicate often when apart and we're like in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship for months now.
I never knew that I'm going to love him, I thought he was just a net friend and it will stop there. I can feel his sincerity, efforts and he's a nice person. I wanted to tell him about my baby, and this bothers me for months now bcoz our relationship's now becoming so intimate. I'm afraid how things will go and how will I start telling him. I dont know if he will understand everything. I'm 23 and he's 28, I love him so much now. He will again visit me soon.
I need an advice.
2007-02-17 16:00:25 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We haven't talk about personal matters yet, I mean..I only knew few things about him and vice versa. We haven't seen each other's family yet. We are just starting to build a relationship.
My plan before was to forget him, anyway I only met him on net where I was just looking around to ease my boredom. But, as days passed, I felt its so hard to let go of him. Its unfair with him...I can feel he loves me and I also love him now.
2007-02-17 16:08:05 · update #1
The best way and only way to start a relationship is with honesty. I suggest you tell him about your baby, you may be surprised that he will except it and want to be a part of your life anyway. And if it makes him back up then he's not the person for you and you need to move on.You need to be concerned who comes into your baby's life as well as your own, you have responsibility to do what's best for your child and yourself Hope it works out, and if it doesn't, try not to take those net dates to seriously, alot of people lie about alot of different things and you should be careful.
2007-02-17 16:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by glorene b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest and straight forward will be the best thing to do. He might even be excited to know that you have a 3 year old. A guy always wants the truth
2007-02-17 16:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by darthdawson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him a long time ago! Honesty is always the best policy... so, tell him as soon as you can and be prepared for him to react - but if he loves you and is understanding, then he'll come around and hopefully it's not that big a deal!
Good luck!
Aloha!!
2007-02-17 16:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but you should have told him this before you start
going out with this man, it about honest, what do you think will
happen when he find out this, trust me when you are dishonest
from the start there no good that come out of this. honestly is
the best policy.
2007-02-17 16:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well tell him now because it is going to get really hard hiding your kid.
2007-02-17 16:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him.
if he is of a different nationality, you need to get to know him more because of cultural differences, among other things.
2007-02-17 16:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better tell him now...don't wait any longer...just put the cards on the table and be honest...good luck
2007-02-17 16:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋