finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. and as we conversated furthur he went on to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women, because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman.. he said yes but usually but he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job, he referred me too, but he hasn't called is that good or bad?
And on on top of that..he has in the past invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did
2007-02-17 15:53:24 · 4 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is sending mixed messages and I'm interpreting them that he isn't all that interested. He didn't come through on the church invite, he knows you are interested since he did respond to your text, but he hasn't called? Even a shy guy will call you when he's sure that the girl is interested. Try once more to invite him out, if he somehow dodges it again, then move on he's just being polite.
2007-02-17 15:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. What guy have you ever heard of that is totally into a girl, doesn't call her all the time, thinks of excuses to be with her, leaves messages on her phone when he can't talk to her, and wouldn't borrow money or think of a no money thing to do? He's just not that into you and that's why all of the excuses, the "maybe" come to my church group that never goes through, the no calls. Find somebody who would be totally into you and would follow through on calls and text messages and find any reason and any excuse and scrape up whatever money he could find just to be with you. Move on.
2007-02-18 00:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to bang him and that is it. Because that is all you want he knows it but he is looking for love. Don't make him fall in love with you becasue he will. Then someday you will dump him after you know he loves you. Or he will leave you because he is too good for you and you know it.
2007-02-17 23:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men by nature are hunters.
it will help though if women make themselves easy to hunt.
i think you're on the right track but always be modest, as women should be.
2007-02-17 23:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋