How does a person know if their over someone? See I really really like this guy, but after the last dance, I finally figured out I'm not what he's ever going to be looking for. So how do i know if i'm truly over him? Do i have to wait until i see him again? What if i still like him? How do i get over him, and dating other ppl isn't an option cuz one, i'm not outgoing and two, i go to a tiny schol so there aren't many people.
2007-02-17 15:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by ~The Kat's Meow~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you think your not the right one for him? why make this decision? Have you spoken to him yet? Just because you may see him with someone else doesn't mean he dosent like you. Dont compare yourself to other. you are unique special whats not to love. People like exciting personalities. fun laugh and confidence.. Unfortunately when younger some of boys like looks and being popular.Sounds like this might be your issue. Not all but some. Do you have some info on him and yourself so we can answer better. Do you like the same things etc..
You will find another in time. Give him smiles say hi in the hall. make him notice you and Do what feels right. If you haven't asked him why not ask.. The worst thing he will say is no.. good luck and love yourself. In time you will get over it. Time is the key and I dont think your over it yet.
2007-02-17 16:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by luvtopaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you didn't have a meaniful relationship with this person more than a couple of dates, or a 1-2 year relationship, then it would be harder. Your not going to meet another person if your going to sit on the sidelines and watch. You need to get in the game and find someone with simular interest and likes. Only time will tell. When you find someone else you will think of this other person less, because, I hope, your focusing your attention on the person that your with.
2007-02-17 15:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely over a person when you feel indifferent about them. That is you have no emotional feelings of love, or a crush, or even anger or hatred. YOu simply feel "indifferent" like it does not matter. Then my dear, your finally OVER them for good ;-)
2007-02-17 15:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can never fully be over some1 u may be with some one esle but inside a small spart is still burnig inside but all u need to do is put it out
2007-02-17 15:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by armcandy92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm.. Posting this on the INTERNET is a good sign that you are NOT over him. You will know you are over him when you feel indifferent about him.
2007-02-17 15:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by troyaj1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds. dont worry about that. just live ur life, enjoy time wiht friends, family and ur interests and soon enough, u will wake up one morning and u will be like, "what the hell did i see in him?" i hope that happens sooner rather than later for you. goodluck.
2007-02-17 15:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really "over him" you wouldnt be asking this question. you know when you are over some one. There will never be a question in your mind.
2007-02-17 15:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever REALLY loved someone, you'll never fully be over them.
2007-02-17 15:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by The12thMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing things that you like to do best keep yourself busy
2007-02-17 15:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by stressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not over him if you are questioning it.
2007-02-17 15:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋