I was seeing this girl for four months and she told me that she had broken up with her boy friend but one day her boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes. She never told him about me because she was going out with him the whole time should I tell him what she is really like. Or just let the poor guy find out the hard way. He has no clue or does he?
2007-02-17 15:07:42 · 8 answers · asked by flydives 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he had her first, he probably knows more about her than you do. Four months is hardly long enough to get to know someone all that well. Maybe she was just going out with you because she wasn't sure her boyfriend would ever get serious enough to commit to a long-term relationship. You were probably a "just in case" she got dumped. She probably was in love with him all along, but he may have been giving her signals that said he wasn't ready for marriage, or wasn't giving her what she needed. If that has changed and they want to be together, I suggest you leave well enough alone. Are you sure you aren't motivated by revenge for being "used" rather than by the charitable act of "saving his hide"?
2007-02-17 15:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by arcticsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him find out the hard way
if he likes her he probably wont believe you anyhow. he will think you just want her back or something
2007-02-17 23:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, and let go of your anger. It can destroy you. He'll find out the hard way, like you did.
There are lots of other girls out there.
2007-02-17 23:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't listen to you. He has to find out for himself. Move on.
2007-02-17 23:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to know?
2007-02-17 23:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are very close friends with him, i think you shouldn't get involved in their business. poor guy tho.
2007-02-17 23:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just stay out of it, one day her conscience will catch up with her and she will tell him
but if you go up to him and tell him, chances are you will just cause a him to want to fight you....
2007-02-17 23:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shuld let them be. its her choice whether or not to come clean to him.
2007-02-17 23:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by nathaniellover2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋