The week before last everything between us seemed fine. Well it was usual which means he came over once during the week on his off day at the usual 11:00 pm and we talked on the phone everyday and he even dropped by Fri night to pick up some stuff I had got him. Then Sat morning I phoned him (he has call display) he never called back. Sun morning I called we talked for a few minutes and said he had to go to work, usually he calls me from work on Sun night and we talk most of the night off and on. He didn't call at all. Then Mon he didn't call at . I called again on Tuesday, kind of asked why he didn't call on Sun night as usual he said he was really tired. Then we talked about 10 minutes and he said he had to run in the store to pick something up and would call me back. He hasn't called back yet. That was Tuesday. Wednesday was Valentines and he didn't call. He hasn't called back yet. I don't want to look like an idiot if he is seeing someone and that is who he's talking too.
2007-02-17 14:59:31 · 7 answers · asked by tw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um how long have u been this guy? if you guys are boyfriend/girlfriend it would have made sense to have plans for valentine's day. the fact he didn't even call you really says something about him. if you call him, it should be to demand an explanation. even if he's working, tired, whatever. the LEAST he could have done was called you to wish you a happy valentine's day.
2007-02-17 15:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys wig out around Valentines day. Too much pressure especially if the relationship isnt secure and they aren't 100% sure what they want or where things are going.
It might blow over. Give him a few days of space and see if he calls. I don't think it is right to assume or expect something on valentines day or demand an answer if you didnt recieve something. Maybe he isnt ready for that yet.
Anyway...my gut is really saying yr on rocky shores. And calling him all the time is going to make it worse.
2007-02-17 15:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I was going out with a guy and he never called me for a week and never answered his phone when I rang so I decided to end it because he didnt have the guts to tell me it was over. Dont ring your boyfriend let him ring you and if he has a good excuse for not ringing you then fine. But not ringing you on valentines day tells me something different move on and find someone that will treat you with respect From sonja
2007-02-17 15:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by tigger 74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is taking the cowards way out of your relationship. He is really a jerk if he is doing this. I have never understood why when a guy wants to break it off they just can't be a man and tell you. I am sorry to say, but I think it is probably over. You don't need him anyway. You need a real Man and a real man would stand up to you and tell you it is over. Move on. You can and will do MUCH MUCH BETTER!!!
2007-02-17 15:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you say he has moved on and have not told you he is hoping you get the message by not calling you it sad the way he doing it but beware of his tactic. dont you dare call him back off
2007-02-17 15:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him
go look for someone else.
when he finally gets around to calling you tell him its too late you found someone who cares enough to call you.
you dont deserve that. even if he begs for you back say no!
2007-02-17 15:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't call, don't you know the rule, " never call first" let him call you first. don't make him think you're desperate.
2007-02-17 15:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋