i'm really pressued to have sex, i mean what the point. when i don't.
2007-02-17 14:55:13 · 25 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont have sex b/c you are pressured even if you are being pressured by someone you truly care about. if that person really cared about you, he would definately not be pressuring you do to anything you aren't ready for. wait. wait. wait until you are ready and you are in love with someone you are sure loves you back. it will be much more special to save yourself for marriage. if you don't, you will more than likely end up regretting it. you innocense is precious. save it for someone special.
2007-02-17 15:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex may or may not feel good at the time, but if you regret it afterward (which people often do if they get pressured into having it), you will probably feel awful later (emotionally) for a LONG time! Not to mention the diseases you could catch. IF IN DOUBT, WAIT! (Personally I really suggest waiting until you're married so that it will be a super-special bond just between you and your mate, that you've never done with anyone else). No one should ever pressure you to have sex, because it is your body. If they really love you, they will respect you enough to wait until you are sure you're ready and not pressure you.
2007-02-17 23:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by seaturtle26j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex feels good when you are ready for it and you are with a person that you love or really care about. Don't be pressured into having sex you will live with that decision to have sex for the rest of your life and doing it because someone else wants you to before you are ready can have a bad result later on when you want to have sex.
2007-02-17 23:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by bbw_angeleyes72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the chemistry is there, don't do it just to do it.. Sex is suppose to be pleasurable, but don't let anyone pressure you to do anything, can't miss what you never had. Sex is over rated, if wrong person or timing is off it can leave a lasting impression, sometimes bad. Don't get me wrong I am happily married and enjoy sex with my husband but it was not always like that, it took year before I felt sex was good. Now I love it with my husband.
2007-02-17 23:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lord sweetheart, take your time and don't rush things sex is a wonderful, beautiful thing that should be done after you have found the right person (in marriage) but I know how things are now a days and that's not how things go. It is a wonderful experience but only if done at the right time and with the right person... you may think he's the right one but we make mistakes at a young age of judgeing who is the right one.so that tells you not to rush for you do not know if it's the time or if it's the right person. Take you time and you will be happier by not rushing....
2007-02-17 23:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by sarahadams_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a human nature to feel good in sex but that is the end of true love. So you can only decide if you wish to relieve body stress though sex or looking for true love. Its always better to enjoy body relationship with your life partner only.
2007-02-17 23:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything if you are not ready. When it is the right time and the right person , you will know. Don't let anyone pressurize you into having sex.
2007-02-18 00:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex does feel good. Don't do it because you are pressured though. Sex is ment to only be shared between two people who truely love eachother.
2007-02-17 22:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let someone pressure you, have sex we YOU are ready. And from the sounds of it...your not ready. And besides, if you have never done it before, then no...it wont feel good at all.
2007-02-17 22:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don''t just have sex because you are curious or you are pressured into it.
do it when you feel is the right time for you.
no need to rush into sex at all.
if you`re young, which it sounds like you are, i would say hold it off.
Wait until you find that one person.
that's my opinion.
but best of luck.
and take care.
2007-02-17 23:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by sh0rtness15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋