I have a crush on this guy. We used to talk a lot in a certain class, but now we're talking less and less. He acts... mean now. Like a jerk, actually. I was letting my friend copy my paper (The teacher allowed me to) and then he just walked up to it and flung it off the desk. I thought I didn't care about it anymore but it's been popping in my mind more often. And it's probably going to get worst because now I sit right beside him in one my classes. What should I do? Please tell me your opinions.
2007-02-17 14:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by Eden 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds to me like he never really liked you and when he found out that you liked him it freaked him out, that happened to me before, of course i wasnt that mean i was just kinda closed to talking, so this might be diff but i tried to help.
2007-02-17 14:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the very same situation lately. I would reccomend letting this one go. If he was a close friend, you could reasonably approach him to ask why he's being a jerk, but that becomes more awkward if you don't talk very much. Either he thought you liked him and got disappointed when you weren't bolder, or he found out you liked him and got freaked out because he didn't feel the same way. Alternately, maybe he has other problems in his life right now. He sounds as if he's socially impaired and bitter--not the kind of person you want to be with. Be thankful that you are not dating him. Most likely, he would only drag you down.
2007-02-17 23:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i think you should just so get over your feelings for him if you havent already. however something terrible can be going on in his life right now. maybe something is really bothering him. maybe it is too deep to talk about so i would be very careful about confronting him. it may not be such a good idea to ask him what is going on. he could be like psycho or something b/c i cant think of why someone would be so rude to you. you never know what can be making him act this way. maybe you should try talking to your teacher about it and maybe asking her to move you somewhere else.
2007-02-17 22:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pumpkin, you got to be bold once in your life and go for it, tell him that you find him attractive and intersting for some time. Cupcakes, he might be thinking the same but he was too shy to tell you, but you will never know if you do not do anything. Please hurry because guys like these, do not stay single for a long time!!
2007-02-17 22:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Say, "Why have you been acting like such a jerk lately?"
2007-02-17 22:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him to knock it off and if that doesnt work then phycilaly hurt him
2007-02-17 22:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋