Girl Troubles?

Question

Recently, i asked out a girl that i have been after for a while, luckily enough she said yes..

the next morning, she said she wanted to wait because she wasnt actually ready..she put our relationship "on hold"

i asked her again on Valentines day and she said She just needed a few more days and she would be ready, but then a couple of days later she told me she didnt want to try again..i asked for a reason and she said she didnt have one?

im confused and i would like any information possible on what, how and why this has happened...i really really like her and i dont want to lose her..

Help?

Answer 1

ok.. there are other fish in the sea!! she probely found her fish she want so you need yo move on a fing another fish that hasn't been caught bc that one has move on be a man!!! Oh and DON"T act depected about it!!

Answer 2

honestly, if she told you yes in the first place, theres something weird about this whole thing. okay there are a few possile things that could have gone wrong. she was either into you and then became uninterested in a short period of time, she saw someone else she liked, shes dating someone else which could be secretly too, it could have been a dare to say yes to you also. (no offense) another reason, which would suck on your part, is that shes a lesbian. im sure what ever the reason, your too good for her anyways

Answer 3

Sounds like she heard someting about you that turned her off. Mabey some competition is spreading a rumor. Ask one of her friends what is going on.

Other than that mabey either she has found someone else or something is going pretty bad with her right now. Mabey she is having family troubles or something like that. Still, ask her friends to try to get some information.

Answer 4

ok ask her out next friday reason she in all probability be busy all week so attempt the weekend. do no longer ask her out the 1st probability you get reason that should make you look as in the adventure that your obsessed. additionally locate out while she has no longer something to do on the weekends so which you adult men could have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a relationship. possibly she only desires to be pals reason she has no time for having a bf?

Answer 5

she might have been talking to another guy at the same time as you and was trying to decide between the two and she chose the other guy
or
she just lost interest. i know personally i enjoy the chase more than actually catching it. she might be like that and not want a comittment

Answer 6

i think you need to let her go. she doesn't appreciate the good man. i know it will be hard because you really like her but you have to move on. there are so many other good fish in the sea. you just have to search in the right sea feel me? you are more than this for real.

Answer 7

ok well this is a sign she seems to not like you. i say that you go up to her and say "I Want to know why you dont like me, and why you don't want a relationship with me and i dont want to here 'I dont have a reason' your breaking my heart by being rude like that." it might sound mean or something but i say give it a try.

Answer 8

well she might secretly have feelings for someone else. maybe some jerk broke her heart. maybe she hasn't moved on yet. maybe she isn't ready to date again yet. maybe you should just try asking her.

Answer 9

well she mite be to young sice u didnt tell us her age or she doesnt like u



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Answer 10

she doesnt want a boyfriend she just wants to have fun. and unless you show her how wonderful a relationship could be with you, she'll just want to be free. i think your scarying her, she probably doesnt want to move to fast, Seriously :)