ok.. see my bf is really shy and i on the other hand is no that shy so and i no he not gay 4 a fact. but i can't get him to kiss me but i think it is bc he is shy so how can i make his shyness around me go away???
2007-02-17 14:28:57 · 13 answers · asked by [[katy]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really not that into you
2007-02-17 14:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age and experience play a huge part here, why at the opportune time don't you plant a friendly hug and kiss on him? Just a lighthearted show of affection, if you are not on grounds where this would be acceptable, then perhaps your relationship is nowhere near ready for romantic intentions of any sort. Acceptance and sharing will alleviate shyness.
2007-02-17 22:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him feel comfortable hold his hand give him a kiss on the cheek. You can't make shyness go away you can only cope with it.
2007-02-17 22:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Noree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it will take time for his shyness to go away completely. just kiss him unless you wanna wait until then but i must warn you it could take a while.
2007-02-17 22:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I'm in the same situation. I think it would take a whole lot of pressure of him if you did the kissing. I know it would give me more confidence.
2007-02-17 22:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Golfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first is he comfortable around you anyways without kissing ,and if you're in public he's just of people watching, or he doesn't know how to kiss
2007-02-17 22:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kiss his shyness away by kissing him
2007-02-17 22:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel... i thin khe is just afraid of rejection.... like he afraid that he will not meet you expectations.....
just tell him you have a surprise and to close him eyes... then lightly peck him on the lips.... then say thats not so bad.... then move the bar higher.... make it like a game of spin the bottle with just u and him.... make it into like a game... make it fun.....
2007-02-17 22:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by jordanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just come up and kiss him and if you do a good job then he will kiss you more
2007-02-17 22:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be a little more talkative or hang out with more people. be yourself in a more outgoing way.
:)
2007-02-17 22:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Eileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just slap one on him. you are the one who is not shy so go for it...what is he gonna do? he's shy. lol
2007-02-17 22:31:56 · answer #11 · answered by RARE GEM 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋