OKAY, I am going through a divorce right now, thank God! I am 23 and I am in college and have 3 kids. For the longest time, I have had a huge crush on this Dr. I can't get him out of my head and it is driving me crazy. We tend to have a little flirting going on too. I want to approach him, however, I am shy as hell! What would you do if you were in my position and shy as hell?
2007-02-17 14:26:06 · 5 answers · asked by Mary W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also. he has made it clear months ago that he is single. I am happy about the divorce. I have crushed on this guy for over a year.. Never did anything with him though
2007-02-17 14:39:45 · update #1
im very shy too but wat i would do is ask him for advice on where is a good place to eat or wat to do on the weekends which im sure u kno but so he knows your available let a few things slip about u bein single and wantin to go out but not knowing where to give him a chance to jump on his chance to ask u out
2007-02-17 14:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by gata_lcn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, this man is married, aand may take advantage of you while you are in an emotional turmoil. Try and think of how you will feel after he has a sexual fling with you, and tells you that he is staying with his wife because 'of the children'....You need an ego boost right now, which his flirting may provide, but you will pay for it dearly, later on. Look for a singles group in your age range, or a divorcee support group, this will be much better for you long term, than a fling with an exploiter. See this guy bald, and with a pot belly, it may help you. Best wishes
2007-02-17 14:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UM...I think I'm the Doctor you are talking about!
Heh Heh...Kidding.
Actually you should just un-shy yourself and just start talking to him...start with hello and go from there.
If you can't un-shy yourself then try to get a friend of his or yours to tell him that he should ask you out.
Double check with your lawyer...if applies to make sure that this will not bring you any additional legal problems since divorce is not finalized.
If this guy made it "clear" that he's single then to me it's him saying "green light" from me how bout you?
Good luck!
2007-02-17 14:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by md.pierce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would write him a letter and let him know how i feel about him
2007-02-17 14:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by @lw@y$cut3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would turn to the Lord...... i would give it al up to him becuase he is the onlyone who could handle everyones problems.....
he will give you confidence... he will give you prosperity..... just loving him... will grant you eternal satisfactory.... he will give you the man of your dreams..... he will give you things for your children.....
just turn to him and give it up to him..... he has the answers...
2007-02-17 14:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by jordanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋