Well, I'm in high school, and I like my female friend (not thaaat close). I'm not sure if she likes me, but many of the signs are there. Last week I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me (I made it sound like I was asking her to go as friends, but that shouldn't matter, right?). Anyway, she said she couldn't go that weekend because of some dance competition. She does dance, and I think (and hope) she was telling the truth. Now, how does this sound? What if I tell her next week that I couldn't go to the movies last weekend (and give her some believeable, and possible humerous) excuse, and then say something like I hope to go next weekend, but I still need somebody to go with. If she really does like me, do you think she'll offer?
2007-02-17 14:22:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know what ur doing ...,thats the perfect and most realistic way to tezt her out..just do it exactly what ur planning ,if she really does like u , when a girl like a guy..they would not b stupid enuff to refuse to go out with u twice in a role..if she has some excuses again this time,then most likely she doesnt have it for u ,so , just move on...there are lotsa girls in ur school i bet..for u to choose from...gooood luuuck .....
2007-02-17 14:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Wow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, ok. Tell her that you're going to ask her to go the movies every weekend until she either tells you "Never" or "Yes." That will stop the confusion. If she's lying about the dance competition, she won't want the pressure of coming up with a new lie every weekend. This way, you can either begin a relationship with her or move on. I have to warn you against putting yourself in a position of being offered anything by girls. Girls are expressly taught not to offer much of themselves. You have to put yourself out there if you're going to get what you want.
2007-02-17 22:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Great way to test the water! Tell her you did not go to the show cuz you did'nt want to go alone, how about next week? Ask her point blank, and tell her how much fun it would be to spend some time with her!
2007-02-17 22:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Leslie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try something like this: since you weren't able to go to the movies with me last weekend, I was going to be going this weekend, and wondered if you'd like to go?
2007-02-17 22:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by aj1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna complicate evrything just come out bluntly and say you like her. Take the chance.
2007-02-17 22:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's worth a shot. i say go for it.
2007-02-17 22:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by lynnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this doesn't make sense...keep it simple
2007-02-17 22:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im confused.....
2007-02-17 22:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋