as you know you can't have sex for the first 4 to 6 weeks after child birth, so what are some good safe ways to get intamite with your partner until the 4-6 weeks is up?
2007-02-17 14:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i didn't last 2 weeks after having my daughter....so i dont know what the heck to tell you, lol. but if you do have sex be sure you use protection because you are even more fertile in the first month then before the baby...
2007-02-17 14:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by bjd72003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is usually a very individual thing because healing and sensitivity as well as the operation will vary somewhat. It is up to the wife to determine when she thinks she is ready. The first 2 weeks after you start being intimate again will not feel the best for her, usually. What is needed to begin intimacy again is very slow and methodic insertion to keep the pain to a minimum. This may take some time if done too soon after childbirth. If there is redness in the healing area, it is too soon. Cleanliness is very important always, and especially when beginning again. God bless. Earl
2007-02-17 15:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a night of candles a bubble bath, a nice dinner and you can do things that aren't intercourse to be intimate. he is probably ready and felt left out for a while so try to let him know ahead of time, a note in his car so he sees it on his way to work and thinks about it all day. Maybe a card at night on his pillow promising him a good night on the weekend coming up so he can do something nice for you if he thinks of it or wants to. Get a sitter for even a few hours and mwke it special. Even a good movie and cuddleing and a glass or two of wine. Good luck.
2007-02-17 14:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle, take walk's and hold hands, you would be amazed at how good holding hands feels. Lay on the floor together and watch a movie snuggled up on pillows. Sometimes no sex is a better intimacy.
2007-02-17 14:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well orally or with ur hands sometimes u can have sex before that 6 weeks is up u just have to be really careful
2007-02-17 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by stacia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral. touching. massage. come on.. are you that naive? you can have sex right after if you want.. just remember you can get prenaunt. its just when your comfortable to do it again.. or you can always just get another partner in the mean time. take up swinging.
2007-02-17 20:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Marthamus, AeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back to all those things you did before you ever went all the way. or
Ask your partner, I am sure he will have lots of suggestions!
2007-02-17 14:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by smelted11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps perfoming oral sex on him if you're comfortable doing that and he can restrain from wanting vaginal sex.
2007-02-17 14:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss and cuddle. You will be too tired to do anything else anyway.
2007-02-17 14:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give each other pleasure with your hands or mouth.
2007-02-17 14:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Happily Ever After 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋