Me and my ex have a few mutual friends and he acts a little weird when I'm around. I try to have a good time with our friends but he dosn't really get into conversations that I start. And he dosn't really start any conversations when I'm around. He is some what avoiding me and it's a bit annoying. I'll be doing somthing and sometimes look in his direction to notice that he is looking at me which I find odd. For a while I was trying to talk to him and be friendly but it didn't seem to do much good since he didn't seem intrested in talking to me. After we broke up he said we would still be friends but we never really talk anymore. Sometimes he'll say or do somthing funny and I'll laugh and he just looks at me funny. I really want to be his friend since as long as his friends are my friends I can't completly avoid him. Why can't he just act normal around me? It's been a little more then a month and hes the one who didn't want to be with me.
2007-02-17 14:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows really? I bet he is just feeling very uncomfortable around you. I know alot of people do stay friends after break ups but alot don't. Maybe this is one of those cases. Just give him some space and try not talking to him or laughing at his silly little jokes and let him see what it feels like to be ignored. He might also still want you...But anyhow..Good Luck! Boys will be boys!
2007-02-17 14:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his very concious of you around him and it is just a month old seperation maybe his just feel guilty and when his looking at you
he must weighing his feeling if he do the right thing may be his concience is nagging on him
happen to me once when i met my ex in a christmas party along with my gf she alone and i look at here sincerlly in my mind the
good and the bad times rushing in my mind and that was 2 years
ago can you believe it i have a hardon and that evening my gf suffer for it in a hard time
its like a bonding between you two it was there and your ex dont know how to handle it give him time maybe he will get the feeling
and be your friend foreever
2007-02-17 15:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense hun, but it seems like he has something to hide. I'm thinking that because you have mutual friends he's afraid they are going to spill his secrets to you. Maybe you should tell him that no matter what has happened between you two, you hold nothing against him. if it doesn't work, then theres not much you can do but to move on and let the "boy" act just like that- a boy.
2007-02-17 14:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by rainhawk2101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wow this is great and i say that cuz he still has feelings for u he may have broken up with u but it could have been for a number of reasons the reason he feels uncomfortable is cuz he thought he could still be friends but realized that he still wants to be more well its either that or he jus plain hates your guts but i highly doubt that that is why he is acting that way and him looking at u he might be wanting to get back together but is hesitating for fear that u might reject him and then you will kno that he still feels for u and kno that he realized he made a mistake by leaving u
2007-02-17 14:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by gata_lcn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you,he might feel guilty for doing this to you.i would believe if he is paying attention to you or looking at you-he might still have feelings for you.
Try approaching him and make general conversation.that might be a start to keeping your friendship.
2007-02-17 14:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk too much--smile (or write in this case)--and you don't say anything important. For example, did you dump him, or did he dump you? That's kind of important, and it's not in there.
If you dumped him, leave the poor guy alone. If he dumped you, who cares what he thinks?
See why it's important to know that?
2007-02-17 14:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's still in love with you...and regretting it because he's afraid of losing you, but he's too afraid to get up and do something about it. he's finally realized he's made a mistake! some guys just act like that...makes me wanna pull my hair out when they do that!
2007-02-17 14:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he remains into you, a minimum of extremely. in all threat, he's harm, and tries to place you down with the help of calling you a slag to get decrease back at you. he's in all threat jealous of the different person that's why he's badmouthing him.
2016-09-29 06:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're broken up, but he still doesn't want to be with you.
2007-02-17 14:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he still has feelings for you.
2007-02-17 14:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋