i really like my friend but she is 17 and hasnt had a guy in 4 years by choice and says she doesnt need one im 14 f and not sure what 2 do i mean she`s my friend but gay to me is not cool
2007-02-17 14:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
Why did you catagorize this under dogs? But just because she hasn't had a boyfriend in four years doen't mean she's gay and if she was really your friend you would like her no matter what.
2007-02-17 14:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are good or nice enough to be this persons friend. It is her choice if she is or is not gay. You say she is 17 and not had a guy in 4 years - Well BRAVO to her. Some girls now days still do have morals, maybe she is just waiting for Mr or Miss right. Her choice either way, get with the world of today.
I am married for over 20 yrs with children and if one told me they were gay I would not turn my back on them- sure I would be upset but it is their preference and whatever I would say or do wouldnt make them any less gay but only turn them away from me.
You need to grow up and get with the flow of how life is. The only time you should ever have a problem with a gay girl or boy is if they hit on you.
2007-02-17 14:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend might be gay. your friend might also just be a strong enough young woman to not need a boyfriend to make her feel like a whole person. from the sound of your question, either way, your friend would be much better off without you in her life.
2007-02-17 14:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go with your gut. If you think she's gay & you have a problem with that then you are going to sabotage the relationship down the road anyway. You can't pretend you don't care forever. It'll catch up to you. BUT, I'd find out if she's really gay or not before I started judging her.
2007-02-17 14:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know gay is weird to you now but as you grow up, you may accept it. I lived in a small town until I was 21.when I moved tothis bigger town, i met more gays and came to accept them, even though i can't really stomach it still. but maybe your friend realized that there's more to high school life than boys. at least she won't get pregnant like i did in high school. think about that.
2007-02-17 14:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as some one how is bi my frist answer would be just talk to your friend and be there for them. Being gay lesbion or bi dose not change who thay are
2007-02-17 14:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jamz s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you are in the dog section.
second off, it is not your problem that she has not had a boyfriend. it is not your business about her sexual orientation and relationship status.
third off, if you are going to not be her friend because she might be gay, you are a shallow and blockheaded individual. you stereotyping bigot.
fourth off, learn some basic punctuation. your run-ons are killing me.
2007-02-17 14:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know some ppl are funny when it comes to gay stuff. always remember if she is, let her be, and if she is your true Friend you will respect that.
2007-02-17 14:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by elena l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should accept your friend for who she is not what she is. ps get over yourself, it dose not have anything to do with you if she is gay
2007-02-17 15:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all how does this have anyhing to do wit dogs and second of all maybe she juss dont like u like that
2007-02-17 14:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋