2007-02-17 13:37:05 · 33 answers · asked by Ponyboy99 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No I will not cheat on you, just because I cheated with you. The situation that lead up to the cheating was because of a bad marriage, and you being willing to provide things that were missing and offer yourself so openly. I can not help it that I fell in love with you, it just happened. That is not taken for granted.
I also wonder about you cheating on me, and this is, as others said, a bad way to start a relationship. The question will be and is, will we find the trust we need. I think with proper communication, and after I have left, that answer will become very evident and clear.
Asking such a vague question in this type of forum, will only give you the negative feed back you wanted to justify your doubt in me. Maybe you should have gone to a site where you can give more insight to our relationship and what is really going on.
All I can say about it is. Treat me how you would want to be treated, and I will do the same, talk openly and respectfully, and remember the little things, if we can do this, which I believe we can, neither will ever have to worry about the other cheating. I maybe just crazy, but that is what I believe.
2007-02-19 17:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by maybe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Proper etiquette says that you must first break off one relationship before starting another. Anyone who does other wise is over stepping all bounds of etiquette. Will she cheat on you? I think that if you are already worrying about this, you have already decided that she will cheat on you some day because she's cheated with you. If you have to ask the question you have already established your doubts about the relationship between the two of you. This does not establish a solid foundation to build a relation on. Doubting leads to jealousy and jealousy is an ugly thing to bring into any relationship.
2007-02-17 15:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by sistervoodoo2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. My husband was married when we met, and we have been married 20 years, and he hasn't ever cheated on me.. believe me, I know. Maybe she is cheating because she is with the wrong person and doesn't know how to end it... some people don't want to rock the boat, or are afraid they'll regret leaving... It isn't that they are bad people (funny how judgmental people are about this, when at least half the people do it, huh?), we're all just struggling to get through life and sometimes we hang on to relationships out of fear.
How you can tell is this: If she is cheating with you, and right away she is leaving him for you, then you have a chance that he was just the wrong guy, and maybe you are the right guy... On the other hand, if she is cheating with you, and she is not anxious to immediately end the other relationship, then she is just a cheater and wants to have her cake... and her ice cream on the side.
2007-02-17 14:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Sometimes women stay in a relationship that they are unhappy with and then they meet someone that they really like and it dawns on them how unhappy they really are. If she cheated on the boyfriend reluctantly and only a few times and then breaks up with him, then you have nothing to worry about. However, if she was eager to cheat or has strung you along for awhile, then there is more of a chance she will cheat with you.
2007-02-17 15:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that once someone has cheated they will be more apt to cheat on anyone they are with. They lack a sense of commitment, and dedication in a relationship.
2007-02-17 13:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think yes. If you cheat once you will most likely do it again. A person who cheats has no respect for a relationship or his or her mate.
2007-02-17 13:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself. I condone cheating since I am seeing a cheater, therefore, will it bother me when she cheats on me? Will I worry about her feelings if I choose to cheat on her?
Your personal morality level on this level is pretty low. Doesn't really matter how she treats you since you already established cheating is ok by your own behavior.
2007-02-17 14:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by bumppo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the question should be 'why are you with someone who is cheating?' Should you be concerned if she will cheat when you are the one she is already cheating with? Takes two to tango. If she does who is she to blame? You opened your dance card.
2007-02-17 14:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Pantera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well chances are if she cheated with you she won't take the chances of cheating on you i find that stupid. This is because you know that she cheated with you why would she take th chance because you already know that she is a cheater but i dont exactly know her.
i'm not much of help sorry!
2007-02-17 13:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by !Some Chick! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a chance she wont but MOST likely she will. What goes around comes around....hey, perhaps you'd feel tempted to cheat on HER after all is said and done!
2007-02-17 14:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by V.B A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋