Suicidal thoughts...help?

Question

I have a boyfriend.
But I feel as though he doesn't wanna be with me.
My best friends boyfriend has feelings for me.
I've already dated him.
I'm so confused lately.
I dont know what to do with myself.
I've already started cutting my wrists...
I need help please.
I don't know what to do or who to turn to.

Answer 1

Sweetie, I am so glad you posted this. By posting this, your reaching out to anybody who can help you and I'm so glad you've realized you need help. You shouldnt have to do this alone and your not alone. Everyone who answers this is there for you.
If your boyfriend doesnt want to be with you, then screw him. If he cant see how great you are then who needs him. Dump him.
I think you need to stay away from boys for a while, because thats what seems to be triggering all this unhappiness, so lets just swear off the guys for a while, okay? You need to tell someone about your wrist cutting. Parent, trusted teacher, friend, counselor, aunt, neice, nephew, the dog, whoever you trust, tell them and tell them you need to get some help. They can take you to a psychiatrist, get you therepy, get you medication to manage the depression, sometimes just talking to a friend can help. Just get it all out in the open, dont hold anything back. If you really feel like your about to go over the edge, then I would check yourself into a psychiatric hospital. Its a voluntary admission hospital and they will also see that you get the help you need. Please keep in contact with me, I know exactly what your going through because I tried to do it once too and couldnt. If you ever need someone to talk to my e-mail address is
[e-mail] (dont ask, it was a dorky highschool nickname). Take it one day at a time, dont look forward, dont look back, just focus on today. Good luck and stay in touch :)

Answer 2

You can't be serious! You can't handle a little bit of
him ignoring you. Come on things like these happen everyday to a lot a people. Lighten up!
He doesn't deserve you, he is the one that should be thinking this crap. Stop hurting yourself because it didn't solve anything now did it? I know why you are doing this to yourself you are thinking that you deserve it and you are punishing yourself but its not. You are just destroying perfectly smooth nice womanly skin. When you get older you are so going to regret ever doing this. I think that this is serious and you should seek professional help.
Hey don't think that there isn't anyone out there that doesn't love you because think about your family for a few minutes. What if you go through with it so that he would see that he made a huge mistake and everything and he does recognize that he did then he wouldn't have the chance to spend the rest of his life with you seeing that you have taken your away. I'm sure you wouldn't want that to happen much less your family wouldn't even let him come to your funeral and what if he never even finds out that you died? Then it would be a waste of your time so baby live life and to the fullest!

Answer 3

I do realize that you are dealing with boyfriend issue, feeling as though your world is ending due too him, Fk Him! He is not worth your blood. Because if you end up dead, He will continue to do live and what? Start today and question yourself on why you love him more than yourself. And remember that you are too good to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You will learn in life, that other people (Men) will reject you even if you are marriage with sacred vows. So let him be free to move on, and you do the same, and stop cutting yourself. No one is worth more than you. Don't give up! Oh and if you really consider this girl to be your best friends you wouldn't not even think about dating her boyfriend, or have any feeling for him, Ask yourself who is more important her friendship or him...

Answer 4

First is anyone worth you dying? Your family and friends are the ones who are going to be hurt and still nothing will be solved. If you guy doesnt love you to hell with him no man is worth dying over no matter what. You are worth more than that trust me I dont have to know you to know that. As far as your friends boyfriend goes you two dated once of course he has feelings for you he did when you dated and he will continue to have them that doesnt just shut off like a ight switch but agian still not a reason to cut yourself. So clean yourself up and find a good friend and rent a scary movie and eat lots of icecream and when you are feeling better find a new man.

Answer 5

Your daughter needs her mom. i think of you need to get in touch with others that are going for the duration of the comparable issues as you're. I additionally think of you need to touch you church approximately this. Get in to a bible learn and fill a while with some those which will pay attention and pray with you. you're nevertheless around considering you're mandatory. you would be better than you presently think of you would be. you purely choose help is seeing what you're able to do. purely like while your daughter couldn’t do some thing you helped her understand her means. all of us choose help some better than others and a few at particular situations of their existence. you like somewhat help right here and then i'm particular that when you have a path you will take off. you have plenty to grant. discover a robust church and make some stable friends and those steps will help you commence in a robust path. advantages and you'd be in my prayers

Answer 6

If your suicidal feelings are based on your boyfrriend not wanting to be with you,or not liking you,(if everyone was this way),it would be a mass suicide and there would be no one left on the planet.
I've been where you are and it hurts,but I am about to go to a therapist again.I also get suicidal feelings when I'm PMSing or about to start.People don't understand the power of hormones,the good news is it does get better.Hope you seek a counselor and go for at least 3 months before you make a decision like that.These are just shitty circumstances,but they are not good enough to die for.

Answer 7

Well, first you need to talk with someone who can get you help. You have alot to live for and this situation is not worth killing yourself over, NOTHING is. The best thing to do would be to talk to a school conselor or a professional who can help you work through your issues. PLEASE get some help. You have so much to live for, no guy is worth your to think less of yourself in ANY way. Remember that.

Answer 8

No guy is worth this, hon. I do not know how old you are. I am 36 and hubby walked out on me, our 6 yr old autistic son, a 4 yr old, and a 9 week old baby. I know stress, sweetheart. Cherish yourself, take care of yourself. Love yourself. If you do not believe good about you, pretend until you really do. If you need someone to talk to, email me through here. Good luck and hugs to you.

Answer 9

Please dont think about killing yourself. That is NOT the right decision to make. ESPECIALLY over a boy. There's plenty of other boys out there that want you and will love you and want to get married to you. You are a beautiful young lady. I have not seen u but i know u are. Dont let anyone tell you different. You can have anyone you want and you can do anything you want in life. But not if you kill yourself. Then you'll have no life...so think about it sweetheart

Answer 10

Talk to you parents. Get help so that you can quit hurting yourself. No guy is worth it.
Talk to him, see how he feels. Maybe he is going through something and can't spend that much time with you. Get all your facts before you react.
Once again, get help about your cutting. It leads down a dark path.