2007-02-17 13:23:02 · 12 answers · asked by shia3at_3li 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's really hard because the pain lasts a long time. Speaking from pesonal experience - when I think of what happened my heart still hurts a little and it's been years. As the pain fades you find you are more ready to forgive the other person. It just takes time. Give yourself time so your heart can be sincere in it's forgiveness.
2007-02-17 13:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by aali_and_harith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy but trying is the first step. You also do not have to forget what a person did to forgive them. It is an actual decision and not a feeling so just start working on the decision to forgive them and then do it and over time things will take care of itself. Sometimes remembering what a person has done is good but do not hold the guilt against them because it makes it impossible for them to change.
2007-02-17 13:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Midge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did we not and do we not break God's heart? When we are in disobedience God's heart is bound to be broken. Knowing Christ is knowing forgiveness. Without forgiveness bitterness grows and when bitterness grows, a person becomes miserable and makes all around miserable also. What good does it do to carry around unforgiveness when there can be peace when we do forgive. It's not easy to forgive and alot of times we can forgive but not forget. I think forgiving is much easier than forgetting. I can forgive because Christ forgives - just as simple as that
2007-02-17 13:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by grandmabonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to find peace in knowing that even though they broke my heart, they are happy now. Like if someone left you for someone else. And if they're not, its they're own fault. I did everything I could and they made the choice to break my heart. I know they are the ones missing out on a good thing.
2007-02-17 13:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Edna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really pretty easy. It just means that you give up any right you have to be mad or angry, or to hold any resentment. You just release this person from guilt in that offense.
It does not mean you keep letting this person hurt you. You forgive them of their past offense, the next one is a new deal.
2007-02-17 13:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Terrence J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what your dealing with. i replaced into with a guy for 6 months and he screwed me over lots of cases and ha additionally might start up stupid fights and contact me names this befell like as quickly as a week he even threatened me as quickly as. what i did replaced into after i ended it for stable i deleted his selection even however i knew it via coronary heart and deleted him off facebook so i would not be tempted to communicate to him. I additionally would not hold close out with a similar crew of folk so i would not run into him at different peoples homes or stuff like that. Then once I knew i replaced into solid adequate (it took like 5 months) i stated as him out on each and every thing he did to me and made him understand how pathetic he's, whilst it felt like i had the burden of the international lifted off my shoulders and now i understand im over him and that i've got moved on and enjoyed back.
2016-10-02 07:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by eylicio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness is hard...especially when extended to those who we believe does not deserve such a blessing. If you find yourself having problems forgiving allow Christ to do it for you...You may not be able to forgive but Christ in you can
2007-02-17 13:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Robert K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to forgive. Just let go and move on.
2007-02-17 13:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pray to God,and you tell him Gof I forgive and let go. Ask God to help you to forgive.
2007-02-17 16:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could anyone Break your Beautiful Little Heart?
Just forgive the Idiot.
(no offense intended).
Ditto...............
2007-02-17 13:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋