Ok so my ex is the girl i want to spend my life with and i want your opinion on what you think. Ever since we broke up not much has changed we still do everything together, talk about everything, when she is frustrated or needs help she comes to me. I do the same. She still kisses me, calles me babe, hun, sweetie, etc, tells me she loves me. Do you think she is just playin around with me or should i just move on? I want to stay but if we arent together should i test the waters or should i just wait for her. I love the girl with all my heart. When it comes to her nothing else matters in my life only her. When we are together we are great. Yeah her mom doesnt like me at all. She thinks im a horrible person and that i dont respect her daughter, all i did was buy her, and that im not marriage material. But how i look at it is im not in the relationship with the mom im in it with the daughter. So what do you think i should do?
2007-02-17 13:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, i can tell you love this girl very much and my answer is gonna be hard to do, but tis the right thing. this happened to em to, so i DO know how you feel. ok you have to stop hanging out with her, no matter how hard that sounds. that way she'll miss you and ant to go back out. it really depends on why u guys broke up in the first place. the ONLY thing to do is stop hanging out for a while, and then she should come back to you if she misses you. if she doesn't come back then she dosnt love you back. ( she will come back) i know you dont know me, but just trust me on this one, ok? its happened to em, and it sucked!!! but its the only way. its the last thing you want to do but its what u got to do! lifes tough ain't it? haha
2007-02-17 13:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask youself why yous broke up? Will this change? Can you change this? I think if you answer yes then go for it. Dont give up on love too many people do that then regreat it. I agree you are in a realationship with the daughter not the mother. The mother in time should accept you in time. I hope all works for you!!!!
P.S It doesnt sound like either of you have moved on or even tried too. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad.
2007-02-17 13:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i've been in that situation...im in one now...basically my ex keeps telling me to move on..buh he still loves me calls me baby same ****..but im not trying to seem like a "groupie" and hold on...so basically i think if she don't come aorund sooner or later just to move on..thats what im trying to do.
2007-02-17 13:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shantaisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the mom out of it...Why don't you just marry her?
2007-02-17 13:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋