okay i think im really ugly and i like a boy who looks at me every so often. i heard things he has agreed to like i was yelling sown the hall chasing him or that im a person with a meaningless life and im really ugly. i heard he never said any of it, he just agreed.
i also posted a questian earlier today, it was " Omg i have this dorky friend and i found her page!!!shees soooo ugly!? "
it was really me and i wanted to see others responses.i would never do that to a fiend.please help me.i guess i need to be prettier and hotter? um i dont no.pleez help.
2007-02-17 13:06:24 · 11 answers · asked by Bella baby! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you don't you just need to have a little more confidence in who *you* are.
If this guy did say anything, then he's not worth it, it doesn't matter how gorgeous he is, somebody like that ends up real ugly, just from being nasty. Have you ever read "The Picture of Dorien Gray" by Oscar Wilde?
It's about a guy who is truly beautiful to look at. He has a portrait done to remind him how lovely he is. He does things in his life that are horrible (including being nasty to a girl he likes because she does not fit in his social circle). Instead of aging himself, his picture ages. It becomes twisted and contorted with time, reflecting his inner self.
If you can get hold of it I would recommend it. It's pretty hard going I guess, and the language can be difficult to understand because it's old, but you might enjoy it.
Now, if the guy was just agreeing with someone, it's quite possible that he actually doesn't agree. He's just doing that to fit in with his own mates, perhaps because he isn't as confident as you think...
You are not meaningless, nobody in this world is meaningless, even the most despicable tyrants on this planet have some sort of meaning, even if it is just to make the rest of us realise that not everybody is perfect or that life is a struggle etc.
What you are is UNIQUE, and that is special. Make the most of it, enjoy it. When you are older you will understand how wonderful that is, and you will be greatful that you are a better person for knowing that. I promise you. I was the geeky one once :)
Lastly, DO NOT go emailing your picture to randoms on the internet like the first guy asked! Uh uh, that's a big no no. No offence to the guy of course, but if he was some weirdo then he would just keep telling you how beautiful you are until you are hooked. Sorry mate, it's not personal, I just don't agree with you saying that, and I don't think young girls should be encouraged to do that at all. One day someone might do it and end up getting horribly caught out...
2007-02-17 23:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by cymraesgwyllt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can't really judge if you're ugly or not, put a picture of your self up? If the guy agrees to it, trust me honey he aint worth it. Firs if you wann attract people ditch the "i'm so ugly I wish I could be pretty" tude, trust me I've had it for years it doesn't help. Be bold and don't be afraid to be yourself and speak up when needed. If someone calls you ugly, come up with a witty remark and let it roll off your back.
Maybe the guy is interested in your, but is afraid to make a move because of other peoples oppinions. If thats the case don't let him know he even phases you, if he wants you he'll make his move
2007-02-17 13:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well the problem isn't whether this boy likes you or not.The problem is you have no self confidence. You don't have to Brittany Spears to get a guy, you just have to have faith in yourself. So what you need to do is turn around is look in the mirror and find one thing you like about yourself, then go from there. When you learn to have a little more confidence you will find a lot more guys that are attracted to you.
2007-02-17 13:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Desirae B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right you just have to accept it and take the compliments your a gorgeous girl who is funny and has a nice personality as soon as you see that then he will. To make him ask you out you have to hint at him that your not doing anything this weekend and let him take the next move. All guys act immature in school but when there out of that environment there more open minded and will act normal and not annoying. Hope this helps.
2016-05-24 00:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people think there ugly. Like i used to but i started using make up and i got rid of my "ugly" clothse and got new ones. Alot of people thought i was ugly to untill i got my new look. After i got my new look i started geting boys attention and i got a whole lot of other friends and MOST IMPORTANTLY i got the guy i liked to like me back. And now were going out but i still have other guys all over me.
2007-02-17 14:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Confidence makes you glow. Don't be insecure, that's a major turn-off for guys. Be opinionated and never give in to peer-pressure. That stuff will just ruin your reputation. They'll say you're a junkie or drunk or whore. Just don't do it. And if the guy is not man enough to disagree to those falsehoods, he is NOT worth it. Forget about him. Have some dignity, girl.
2007-02-17 13:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I bet you are not ugly. Very few people truly are ugly. Unless you are extremley fat. And a great personality can over come any sort of looks. Just relax, people are all pretty much the same.
2007-02-17 13:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure your not that ugly. he isn't interested ( or he doesn't seem interested). i wouldn't try but that's my opinion.
2007-02-17 13:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your suposed to think you look pretty then you start to think your pretty thats what my sisters always do try it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good*luck
2007-02-17 14:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by cody s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send me a pic and i'll tell you if you are or not.... and you shouldn't need to change anything about yourself for a guy....
2007-02-17 13:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋