So there's this FINE tall guy at my school. Well, actually he is a new student teacher. That would make him about a Senior or Junior in college. I'm a senior in high school, is that weird? If he is a Junior we would be at the same college together next year. He is SO fine and i like him alot. What should i do?
2007-02-17 13:05:22 · 27 answers · asked by laangel464 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay maybe i should clear a few things up. I don't want ppl to think i'm a ho! i just like the guy and he seems to be a little interested in me, but i really just want to see what people thot about it.
2007-02-17 13:14:10 · update #1
Also, i am 18 and he is 21. And i graduate in May.
2007-02-17 13:31:59 · update #2
When I was in highschool I made friends with the student teacher in one of my classes. We had a lot in common as we enjoyed the same types of music, movies, literature. He was often picked (lucky guy...NOT) to chaperone school dances and events and rather than go alone (where he would be hit on) he would ask me to go along as his "date". Keep in mind it was only a friendhsip and nothing more. As a student teacher he can get into major trouble if he gets romantically/sexually involved with a student. So if I were you and you REALLY do LIKE him just remain friends until you are out of highschool or he could loose his position and have it go on his record which could cause him problems getting employment later on.
2007-02-17 13:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, sorry. That's just creepy. You could make him lose his job. Do you really want that to happen to him?
If you really like him, wait until you graduate. And don't tease/flirt with him now. That's just wrong.
He has a career to think about and he doesn't need anyone screwing that up for him.
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I didn't think you were...I used to have crushes on a few teachers when I was in High School. There's nothing wrong with having a crush, I was just saying, it's not a good time to act on it. (you're in H.S., he's in college). It's just can't work right now and it's not appropriate.
...And like one of the other's said, you could be setting yourself up for total embarrassment..... But just go with the advice most of us are giving you.
2007-02-17 13:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get out of high school. He may be bound by the same standards of conduct as a regular teacher. It would do you no good to date him if he goes to prison.
2007-02-17 13:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by answersmaybe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you graduate before you go for it. Since he is technically a teacher, dating you would put him in a very awkward position that could get him in deep legal trouble and call your academic integrity (whether you earned your grades on your own or got them for giving good head) into question. The school year is almost over; you'll live for a few months.
2007-02-17 13:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothing, please dont embarrass yourself by approaching him.
He is probably not willing to lose his license or career to date you or anyone else at your school.
If he is student teaching this is going to be his career.
If he dates you or anyone else, he can find himself on the sex offenders list for LIFE!
I doubt that if you tried to approach him he would say mush of anything beyond the polite 'no thank you'.
If he is so fine, he already has a girlfriend or two AT HIS COLLEGE!
2007-02-17 13:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanna be on Dateline TV show "To Catch A Predator". Get real girl and ack like someone with good scence.
2007-02-17 13:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Their is a code of ethics that he may be bound by. Find out if they apply to him already or not before pursuing him. Then regardless of the answer give him no choice but to have primal intense sex.
2007-02-17 13:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone, if you were to start seeing this guy it could ruin his career before it even starts. Unless you are 18 you could get his azz in serious trouble. You aren't thinking with your brain here.
2007-02-17 13:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by t2ensie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone. He is working towards becoming a teacher and doesn't need added distractions that can hinder his progress.
2007-02-17 13:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Paul E 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most college guys don't want a high school girl
2007-02-17 13:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by rednsweet4 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋