im still not over my ex-bf even after we broke up for a year. i still do miss him a lot although we dont contact anymore. i do not know what to do. eveything i do, i do for him, every step i take, i step for him, every thought i make, i think of him. i dont know what am i supposed to do. there are many guys after me right now and i just have to reject them for a year. i want my ex-bf back. but its impossible between us. we know that. but right now in my life, all i want is him. what am i to do without him in my mind? how am i supposed to get over him? i work for him, i school for him, i save money for him and cant get him off my mind even for a minute. its been like this for a year and i really cannot take it. i feel like dying many times. but counselling does not help to forget him. i've tried ALL ways. just couldnt. its torturing me. please help me.
2007-02-17 12:46:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I would say the best thing is for you to do things you enjoy doing. Keep busy and work on achieving your goals. It helps if you find someone new, but that is not always the best solution. I have had my heart broken by my husband and past boyfriends. When I preoccupy my mind with thoughts that make me happy and do things that make me happy I am able to move on. With my husband I try to work things out, but still clear my mind of negativity.
2007-02-17 12:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by flirl1027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's VERY hard to get off a guy that you loved deeply. It seems like you're in a pretty scary situation right now. What you need to do is find someone who you can talk to and trust (boy or girl) and try to stop thinking about him. It's hard, but if this doesn't work, you either find someone you love as much (or a little less) and try to find your happiness again or get some help from a couselor just to at least TRY to get your mind off of him.
I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out. I hope someone better comes along for you.
2007-02-17 12:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by concretelake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Laughs. I am going through the same thing. My boyfriend broke with me 2 years ago and I still think about him. However what you should do is to realize that there is other people in the world. That you are worth it. Try to get involved in many activities in which you can meet other people. An if counseling does not work, find another psychiatrist. Sometime this obsession are caused by an unbalance in brain neurotrasmiters. With proper medication you will not feel as obsessed. One question....when is your birthday? Mine is December 8th I am Sagittarious. What are you?....Argentox2@yahoo.com
2007-02-17 12:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly initially i might want to attempt to describe this to the boyfriend. tell him that any sturdy man or woman might want to attempt to assist yet another. and that there is limitations to the way you may also help him so as that he would not sense like you're operating back to him. if he cant keep in mind that than u chanced on out something about him early on contained in the relationship. now for the ex. if it replaced into me i does no longer walk faraway from this one. somewhat attempt to get him help. there are a range of strategies to assist with melancholy. and in case you advise some he might want to sense extra useful. than u can tell him were the line is, so he would not imagine you're growing to be back at the same time.
2016-10-17 07:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by rambhool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest getting out of your environment. take a vacation far far away. while you are gone....act like a new you.buy clothes you wouldn't normally buy, see sights you have never seen, read a book that is not in your usual repertoire, listen to a new style of music and dance! look at the world through new eyes.
fake it til you make it. you CAN do this. you can be you and be happy without him.
all the best! have fun!
2007-02-17 12:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by dali333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with the first guy you see... that will help
2007-02-17 12:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by b_easy_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋