she has no idea me and him are dating. me and her fell out like 2years ago and her ex (which is now my boyfriend of a year)was the only one there for me after me and her got into huge fight which was her fault. Now she wants to be back friends and has no idea im with him. I feel bad and dont know what to do my feelings for my boo are very strong and i kinda miss my old friend she sounds like she very sorry for hurting me years ago. but im already in this relationship!!! this eats me up everyday What do i DO???????????
2007-02-17 12:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by prettyqq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way out of it but to be honest with her. I always say that in any relationship, there should be honesty and communication. She doesn't have to know any details, but to accept you, and to just let her know, you can tell her. She will find out anyway. You can accept her apology and tell her that you both are dating now and have been boyfriend and girlfriend for about a year now. Things happen and people mature. She should be mature enough to handle it. If not, then you weren't meant to be friends. It is her loss to lose you as a friend. Hugs and Best wishes to you.
2007-02-17 12:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 friends that I consider my very best friends and i would never date either of there ex-boy friends. I have had my ins and outs with my friends but they are always my friends even if we don't talk for even 3 years, i could never do that to a friend. But since you are already in the relationship i think you should be honest with her and tell her you are with him and that you are happy with him. See if the 2 of you can be friends still and go from there.
2007-02-17 20:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to tell her sincerly you are dating him, because if she finds out from someone else it is just going to make things worse! If you love this guy stay with him but let your friend know the best way you possibly can, let her know you love both of them but also don't want to be torn between
2007-02-17 20:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL NOW DAT U R N DA RELATIONSHIP U CANT HURT HIM 4 HER.WHEN YA BECUM FRIENDS TELL HIM ABOUT HER.IF ANYTHING SHE NEEDS 2 B HAPPY DAT U R HAPPY.IF SHE TRY TO ACT STUPID, SHE AINT A REAL FRIEND.
2007-02-17 20:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ur dating the guy explain everything , if she doesnt wanna be ur friends cuz of that then her loss....
2007-02-17 20:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it doesn't matter what she thinks it didn't work out between them so if she tries to break you guys up avoid at all costs
2007-02-17 20:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by jess98gum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront and honest. Secrets kill trust and any kind of friendship.
2007-02-17 20:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never go back to being friends with her.
2007-02-17 20:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by toni stark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...shes going to find out anyway
2007-02-17 20:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing
2007-02-17 20:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by hairy pouter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋