Should i give my child up for adoption?

Question

Ive been seeing a ginger lad behind my fellas back, chances are the kids his, should i have it adopted before birth to ensure im not associated with a ging?

Answer 1

I think your boyfriend will want to be there when the gingerbread baby pops out of your oven. You should have a film crew there and sell the video on the internet. You are sooo lucky. You could be a millionaire.

Answer 2

Well, there _are_ options. I'm not saying you shouldn't give the little carrot up -- that's a decision only you can make, and far be it from me to judge you -- but.

I'm pregnant, and, humiliatingly, my husband is ginger.

I am, thank heavens, normal. There's no ginger in my family, so I won't even be passing on a recessive gene.

You'll note, please, how charitably-minded I am. Normal people _should_ mate with gingers; it's the only way to breed them out of existence. If I didn't, he might've tried to reproduce with a ginger girl, and -- well, clearly, ginger children are not a good idea.

Anyway. On the off chance I've been lied to and there is some ging in my family, and the baby comes out ginger -- first, I hope it's a boy. I'll just shave his head.

If it's a girl, a rigorous dyeing program will start c. age two.

It's a serious issue.

See:

"Italy has called for Ginger people to be banned after research scientists discovered that Ginger people were found to be up to 50% more ugly than those who were non-ginger..."

http://www.tomski.com/mrdamian/archive/001089.html

"Put all ginger haired people in concentration

When you walk down the street, Do YOU have to be subjected to gingers? Does the site of their rusty barnets make you want to throw up? Sign this petition NOW and we'll make sure they're all put into special escape proof anti-ginger concentration camps."

http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/Gingers

Now, I wouldn't go nearly that far, but it's important to keep in mind the reality of the world for ginger people.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

Answer 3

If you "love" someone who's ginger, why wouldn't you love a child who may be ginger? You will fall in love with your baby regardless of hair colour, although ginger hair can look beautiful. If you're ashamed of seeing the guy end the relationship now and come clean with your fella- hiding the truth will only lead to later complications and make for a rocky relationship. You should not arrange for your unborn baby to be adopted- you don't know how you will feel when you give birth. Normally people feel an undescribable, wonderful motherly bond and you won't be able to let the child go.

Answer 4

Well if the kid come out Ginger the hair colour more often than no doesn't come from the perents,it comes from perents and perents and perents before that you say my great great great grandmother had ginger hair it will be fine

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has it been born yet is the firsdt question if so, you might choose to have the kid aborted,
they'd first kill the baby inside the womb with salt maybe put you to sleep and break up the baby and pull it out

or its your choice to put the baby up for adoption even though your husband will find out becuase putting children up for that takes months and hey your husbands gonna wanna see the baby and have a say in if you put the baby up fr adoption

its your chioce

i'll leave you with that
i'm sorry i havn't been much

Answer 5

If you're considering adopting the child to not be associated with a ging, you should definitely give it up so it could live with a loving and *mature* family.

And you should definitely start using birth control.

Answer 6

firstly you may not have a Ginger haired baby, secondly if you go through with the birth, your motherly instinct should kick in which means you will wont to keep the baby so if you are determined to have this baby who may I add never asked to be born it will be a lifetime of commitment if you wont to give it up for adoption do it for the right reasons and not because it may be a ging

Answer 7

Yes you most definitely should give that baby up for adoption. You are obviously not in a state of mind that you'd be able to morally raise that child. You shouldn't have the enjoyment of being a mother. Your partner doesn't deserve the abuse of your actions either. So what have you told your boyfriend about the pregnancy? I'm sure once you start showing he'll be excited at the fact of being on his way to fatherhood. What will he say when you tell him you've decided to give the poor thing up for adoption? Will he understand or fight to keep it? What then? Will let him in on your little secret, the one about you being a whore? You're really twisted for putting others lives in your spider web. One day consider a bit of respect to those you're hurting!

Answer 8

what a mess. No mention of any marriage anywhere! Yes, have the child adopted to give a good chance of a decent home with mature parents and get yourself sterilised to prevent more unwanted children from happening.
If this were unwated puppies, no one would offer you any sympathy, but this is an unwanted child! Unbelieveable. Find some decency and tell the truth, be a woman about it.

Answer 9

You need to think of all the people on this planet that can not have a child let alone more than one. You are a immature selfish person who doesn't deserve anymore children. Give this child up for adoption as you don't deserve him/her and they definitely deserve better than YOU. If this question is indeed serious you, my girl are troubled.

Answer 10

If the child is unwanted and there's a chance that the baby going to be born into a hostile environment with a man who will eventually find out that child is not in fact his, yes, you should give it up for adoption.