my boyfriend says he bored, doesn't care about life etc wants to try drugs cos he has "nothing better to do". when i tell him i don't want him to he's like well you tried weed and stuff, which is true, but like it was one time. he wants to do it regulary, like at school and stuff too. what can i say to him. i love him. help please
2007-02-17 12:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beat the crap out of him. It worked for my sister. She caught him smokin pot and pounded him into next week. he stopped.
2007-02-17 12:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer bypass to the occasion, do you recognize that it only takes one time of doing drugs to get addicted? there is no longer only one time. Do you quite need to destroy your existence? miss going to college, lacking having a marriage or assembly the guy of your desires? lacking having a family participants? miss being in touch in motives which you have self assurance in? miss having a sturdy profession? lacking having your guy or woman domicile, and each little thing you dream approximately? that is no longer worth giving up your existence for. i'd tell your boyfriend which you're tired of him mendacity approximately you doing drugs each and all of the time (that's barely making you look undesirable), tell him that he can the two love his drugs or his existence, yet which you do no longer prefer to be a factor of his drug existence. Be good and say you're busy this weekend so which you do no longer bypass, greater valuable yet, tell him the events and medicines are only no longer for you and you have too lots to lose at this element on your existence, and need him the better of success.
2016-11-23 15:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs are extremely dangers if he wants to play Russian Roulette because he's bored run away as far and as fast as you can. Don't tell him not too because you are not his mother you can not protect him from himself no matter how much you love him. just remember when that gun goes off you WILL get caught in the blow back. Check into Al-anon.
2007-02-17 12:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him more. Tell him that you care about him and you don't want him to ruin his life. Talk to him and try to convince him that drugs are bad. Because they are bad. Do some research on the internet. Try to find some websites that show what drugs will do to you. Then show them to him. Tell him that you love him and you don't want him to ruin his life. Tell him that even though you love him you will leave if he starts using. If he seems convinced that he wants to do drugs, then you NEED to tell someone. His parents, your parents ect. If he doesn't listen to you then you need to get adults in on the situation to help.
2007-02-17 12:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start packing. You've said enough. If he has done drugs the man has been replaced by a thing. Get away. It has no mercy.
Whatever he was that is over. You got your warning shot. Be glad it was the last thing he did out of respect for you.
2007-02-17 13:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have one hell of a job to buy drugs! You have to try to talk him out of it again, and tell him if you do then I love myself to much to be with someone that’s going to drag his life down and I'm not going with you there. so if you do I'm have to move on with out you. I know it will hurt but you have a choice to make the drugs or me?
Good luck and Just say no to drugs
I know you don’t have to have a good job to buy drugs.
2007-02-17 12:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just told us. you love him, but you don't want him to do drugs. There are so many ways they can ruin someone's life. And if you are dating him, he can mess up your life too. Can't he realize that? You are looking out for his well-being. Be sincerely worried and beg him not to do it. Tell him that even though you tried it, you hated it, and you don't want him to get into a big mess.
2007-02-17 12:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that you care about him and what you did was stupid and you know that now.You don't want that to happen to him. And that you love him. Tell him if he does it then he's risking everything he has.
2007-02-17 12:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god he needs help and if it weed or alchol those arent bad but dosent care about life.
2007-02-17 12:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by cactus78 p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm
kinda hard since i dont know em personally
here is a odd choice
*which i dont reccomend doing*
tell him its either u or them
u could tell em how bad it is(if he doesnt know already)
2007-02-17 12:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by jaye3rd89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋