What do you too when i girl tells you that she loves you, but says she doesnt want to go out with you then one week later tells you she no longer likes you?
This all started about 3 months ago. Recently we kissed, and being the stupid person i am thought she might like me again, we kissed repeatedly over the evening and each time she says sorry at the end of it but ends up doing it again, i then say to her that i thought she liked me, but as you can guess she tells me she doesnt.
We then didnt speak to each other the next day, and i ended up crying because i thought that was the and of our friendship, and to me its the best friendship i have ever had, but we are fine now but i think i wont be able to 'get over her' if im still her best mate.
How and why has she gone from liking me to not liking me when i did nothing wrong?
What can i do to still be best mates with her but get over her at the same time?
And why did she kiss me?
Cheers
2007-02-17 11:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by Wallace G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she's enjoying the attention. I don't think she wants to go out with you, but she likes to keep you hanging on and in reserve. If you think about it, she's getting all the good bits of having a boyfriend and none of the hassle - so she has no incentive at all to change things. I'll bet she has you wrapped around her little finger, my friend!
The acid test will come when you start to go out with someone else. See whether your friend wants to meet your girlfriend and make an effort with her, or whether she's horrible to her, tries to split you up, tries to get you to say you don't really care about your girlfriend, or just goes into a hissy fit sulk and won't speak to you. In fact I think you should go out of your way to get a girlfriend just to test this one out!
Good luck with it. Genuine friendships between men and women are few and far between but when they do happen they are great. I hope this is the case with yours, and it's not just some adolescent mind game/ego-trip on the part of the lady in question.
2007-02-20 08:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Snakey B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please for God sake, face your studies at your junior secondry school now. and try as much as you can to improve in your english language. what you are experiencing now was common with us guys when we were at your age. you will grow to know she was not actually all you thought she was, and i mean, not your life. try again by sending her a mail and tell her how you feel, it does not make you a lesser boy. it's all part of growing up. but if you are a grown man that asked this question," please can you spare me some drugs
2007-02-17 12:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Josh A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are weird they will do your head in mate when they get like this just leg it.
2007-02-17 11:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Your Nuts! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheers!!!
2007-02-17 11:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by christian s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to both say no longer some thing and stay with it tell her tht u like her and c wht she says tell her u like ladies yet dont tell her till she were given used to tht, tht u like her especially
2016-12-04 07:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋