Ok Ive been seeing this guy for 5 months and things are not like they were in the begining. He doesnt call as often and I dont have a phone right now so he cant call me but things are so diffrent. I try and call him once a week but its so hard I wanna call more often. Anywayz he says he doesnt want anything serious but its kinda serious. So my question is should I give up?
2007-02-17 11:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by mark t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really care for this guy then don't ever give up the hope that yall will be together no matter how different things seem. Cause let me tell you something sweetie, when you first get in a relationship of course it's going to seem like your in heaven. But that usually because a guy or girl has to make it seem like their the best thing you could have so they can pull you in to fall in love with them. It's a normal thing that everyone does, even if they don't realize it at the time. A guy nor girl has to call everyday just to show you that they still care cause once your around that person everyday or talk to that person everyday it starts to be annoying at times and thats what screws most relationships up. With the whol not wanting a serious relationship, well I'm sorry I believe that when your dateing etc... then it's consider a serious relationship from the beginning. Most guys say that so the girl wont think they have any right to get mad at them for surtain things or it's b/c their scared to commite because they don't want to get hurt. And now days you never can tell whos going to hurt you or not hurt you. So like I said at the beginning if you care for this guy and ,might even possibly love him then don't give up on him. Stay by he's side through thick and thin, thats what a relationship is all about is knowing that the person your with will ride a bumpy road with you when things get hard but never gives up on the feelings yall carrie for each other. good luck and I hope I helped.
2007-02-17 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only focusing on the negative aspects of your relationship with him. Try to focus on the positive--what does he do that you do like? If you spend all your time obsessing over when and if he calls, then that's all the relationship will consist of. If you want it to be better, you must first focus on the "better".
Also, don't take anything in life too seriously. Allow whatever happens to just happen, and enjoy things while they last.
2007-02-17 19:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he no longer wants a relationship with u. If he did, he would want to talk to u and spend time with u.
Sorry, but its the truth. U make a way if u care for someone. He obviously isnt making a way to contact u.
Try a female. We are a little more considerate.
2007-02-17 19:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, if he can't see eye to eye with you then maybe you should try to relax a bit more and not take the relationship as seriously until he himself can take it seriously, Have fun with him for now and just let things happen naturally, me myself I don't believe in giving up, if you really want something enough you'll get it, if its meant to be its meant to be
2007-02-17 19:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER GIVE UP ON WHAT YOU WANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girl do you see me giving up on a boy i dont see often, dont know phone#, and i still want give up! he knows i like him but i love him in tell the every end! my mom says i dont need a bf but when it comes to him i cant. i nevely cryed to day because 1 of my friends sayed he has a gf and for some reason he wont call and tell me!so....
NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 19:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by tissysbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man tells you he's not wanting anything serious,believe him,don't sit back and try to convince him or yourself that he wants something other than what he told you.work on getting yourself a phone,,good luck
2007-02-17 19:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na just keep begging for him--duh it's like women are so dumb in America just leave him since he does not want to spend time with ya.
2007-02-17 19:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no! i mean if you do give up then it will be over. i think you should tell him how you feel and try to make him understand what you are going through right now with this. good luck! ;)
2007-02-17 19:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump his butt. It looks like the flame has pretty much gone out of your relationship, so why prolong it when neither of you have your hearts in it. There's better out there for you. :)
2007-02-17 19:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should
2007-02-17 19:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by mora fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋