There's this guy that I really like. I have for a while now. We go to the movies in a group of friends almost every weekend. Well yesterday I called him 2 ask him if he wanted 2 go 2 the movies, & he said he was already going 2 the movies with a friend from work. So, I went out 2 the movies with a bunch of other friends and had fun. Well today I called him, 2 see if he wanted to hang out, and after he said "hello", I was like "What's up?", and he said that he was at the movies (again). So I assumed that ment that he couldn't talk, & said "I'll talk 2 you later. That was at 4:10 and now it's 6:40, should I call him back, or wait for him to call? We probably wouldn't do much, besides hang out at his house and play video games, or go out to dinner, but I would still like to hang out with him. I don't want 2 bother him, by calling him, if he is busy with other friends. . What do u think?
2007-02-17 11:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well wait till 830 then call to see, you do not want him to get po ed and feel like you are crowding him because you might give yourself some time to cool your jets, if your friendship ever is going to have a chance to grow you both need to want it not just one it sounds like you might be expecting a little to much to quick, i am not saying that to hurt your feelings , just to give you some help. you are worth a little time, and if you want a long lasting relationship it is well worth it , a great relationship meaningful one is well worth a few breaths , GOOD LUCK LET me know when you get him!!!!! that will show him your special qualities the other friend probably do not have ,
2007-02-17 11:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. He knows that you want to talk so when he gets a minute he should call back. I've come to realize that guys don't always "remember" to call back. So, just be patient and take your mind off of it. If he doesn't call within a couple days give up on him.
2007-02-17 19:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by JC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him again for a couple of days. You've made some good effort and he should see that you want to spend some time with him. Another indirect way to contact him w/o seeming at all stalkerish would be to text msg him.
2007-02-17 19:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by frozenpeaches1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should probably wait for him to return your call. Since you said "talk to you later" that didnt mean that you would call him back.
wait for like 4 days. if he doesnt call by then, then i would call. you dont want to seem to desperate
good luck!
2007-02-17 19:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt push it with this guy. Its obvious he's not into you in that way. No man is worth that much aggrivation. If he cant see you for the great person you are, then thats his problem.
2007-02-17 19:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That Boat has sailed, Dear One. Elvis has left the Building! Sorry!
2007-02-17 19:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call him one more time but not for a few days. I would go mad with impatience but I would force myself to do it anyway.
Good luck.
2007-02-17 19:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call back. You don't want to seem needy or desperate. Make him want you, don't be too available.
2007-02-17 19:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Super Rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't call back.
he might think you're desperate.
just wait..if he wants to hang out with you, HE will call.
2007-02-17 19:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tomorrow.......call him and see. Don't call him anymore tonight........have a good day.
2007-02-17 20:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋